Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

Molly41

Look forward to watching your DVD xx

peppa-pig

hugs mooloo xx

Thrifty_Sister

Mooloo - what a wonderful picture you paint of your childhood, school days etc. It sounds brilliant. Hold on to all that - I sincerely hope things will improve soon.xx

~Chameleon~

Your last post really touched me this morning Mooloo. Big hugs to you xxx

Savvy_sewing

Well we are back from seeing the boys. They are growing so fast. DGD and DGS1 hugged tightly and he was so pleased to see us, he didnt know which of us to hug first.!
The father DGS1 was not able to come for his time, (run out of money or something), and we had hoped that we could stay longer,seeing as the room was booked, and so was the SW that sat observing etc.? But she said no. Having said that, I am quite sore today, and after playing on the floor etc with them all I am probably better of on the physical side, having come home and not stayed.
Although there are only a few weeks between DGD and DGS1, she is now so much taller then him. Its amazing she really is surging ahead of him, in so many ways, and in her speach!The difference is amazing.
I am hoping to see Molly this afternoon, and I am looking forward to our chat.
Just time for our lunch.

Savvy_sewing

Well I fired off an email to the SW about the funding and demanded he sort it out, and sent a copy to the student from the other team, so they know what i am on about.
She has phoned me this afternoon and added to my gloom poor girl. She siad that he is on annual leave for the next 2 weeks. So my demands will not really be met.
She also told me she has been to her superiors and they are now asking for a "Professionals meeting" as my email has highlighted the facts that I am not happy about it. She inturn has also said that her boss is going to speak to his boss and find out what is going on.!
I am also at that meeting next week with the Team Area Manager, which should be interesting. I know the woman off old. (Her children's Nanny, was my children's nanny before her, and we met on a few occasions back then). Be interesting to see if she remembers me or not.
Anyway. I am fed up to the back teeth.
I just told the SW that I am going to get a book, and go back to the beginning of my time on my "thread" and write my story for the papers! or a book!.
So I suppose I have got to do it now! EEk I have just given myself some serious work to do.!
If I can muster up the energy and the time.
Today I am tearful, and at the end of my tether.
I need chocolate and wine! But alas I havent got the latter. I have just remembered I was given a box of chocolates for christmas, must be in the bag upstairs in the bedroom. Shall have to go and have a hunt for it.
DGd fell asleep about two hours ago now. in my bed. She was really tired. Our sleep patterns are out of the window.
I should wake her up,, but I really needed this hour to myself. (along with the interruptions on the phone ofcourse).

I also had the post. No cheque of course. But I also was turned down for the DLA application. I am not bad enough still to receive it.
I shall appeal, but I am not sure Its worth my effort. I think I need to loose complete use of my legs and my senses before they will pay me.
So back to struggling on as I am then. The thought of a bit of extra help has gone out of the window.
I have emailed my solicitors too, but no reply. My calls are not being answered either. Should I say, returned either.
Maybe I will just have to write this day off, and maybe the whole week, and hope that I can find my bounce next week to carry on the fight and the arguements etc.
So from a very low Mooloo, I shall go and make another cup of tea. Put the chicken in the oven, and then wake DGD if she is not already awake.
Perhaps we will watch a DVD or something later as bedtime is disrupted.

jackieglasgow

Mooloo I am not thinking very straight just now, and will come with ideas later, but for now I just want to send you an enormous hug.xxx

minimoneysaver

Hugs Mooloo. Crappy start to the new year. Everest calls! xxx

Savvy_sewing

minimoneysaver wrote: »

Hugs Mooloo. Crappy start to the new year. Everest calls! xxx

It can only get better????

DGD wet the bed.! My bed. So now I have to attempt to get the bedding clean. She woke as I was about to put the dinner on. So dinner has just gone on now.
I have the bedding in the washing machine. But the matteress still got wet dispite a matteress protector and a duvet that was between them and the bottom sheet. (The matteress is useless and needs changing, so I have a duvet under me to stop feeling the springs.!) Alas this now means that there are 2 kingsize duvets needing cleaning and they do not fit in the washing machine, and i cannot wash them by hand! I will need to find a launderette now.!
Meanwhile I will have to look out the sleeping bags or something to sleep on.
Biggest of Mooloo suggested DS's bed, but he was smoking in there (dispite my telling him no!!) so it stinks! Yuk, No thanks.
I may have to sleep in the reclining chair downstairs tonight.!!

I have come to the conclusion that today is just not my day! The sooner it is over the better.

On a good note, we must look on a good note, the Cath Kidston Baby changing mat that I ordered for the new baby arrived this afternoon. Its lovely! (Well I think so as I love Cath Kidston fabrics!).

minimoneysaver

OMG! Sounds about right. My daughter is the same. At least DGD is making far better progress than my daughter. Mine is 5 1/2 and wets if she falls asleep for even a short nap! ASDA 'disposable' duvets have become my best friend for her! She's not allowed near my bed unless she has a pull up on as I love my down duvet and egyptian cotton bedding. The pull ups sometimes leak, so in the meantime I air her duvet outdoors and spray with detol spray and just replace every few months with a new one at about £5. Cheaper than having them washed at £10 a piece!!! I don't like waste, but against those prices, I don't see another option. Off to put her to bed and sit and watch some trash tv! Night x