Mooloo's New Home, New Year and New Start part 3

Molly41

MatyMoo wrote: »

Hope you are feeling better Molly!

Thank you for asking after me. Im feeling ok ish but not quite myself at the moment. Im resting up and am sure will be back up and wobbling soon xx

Anyway got to get fit as really looking forward to our craft weekend next week !!

Savvy_sewing

I am emotionally and physically drained.
The social Worker has gone back over my complete life history, with very personal questions all oveer again.! It brings back things that I do not like to think about in my relationships etc all the way back to when i was about 5!!Why did we move, why did I do certain jobs, what happened in my marriages and my relationship with my ex husband, my boyfriend. Who are the people that I had as references. Everyones details. She now wants to talk to everyone all over again????? What was the point of the other SW doing this earlier in the year? Where are the records. She wants my birth certificate, They had it, I have now lost it.
They had my passport and driving license last time she was here. Its all duplicating and its stressful, and I wonder why I am actually bothering.
I have a good mind to say I am not going to answer anymore questions or have anything more to do with any of them, and see if my solicitor can sue them for stress ing me out and putting unnecessary stresses on to our family by stringing this out over the last 4 bl00dy years.
I dont think I feel I can take much more of them I really dont. I am sick of being cooperative. If it wasnt for DGD having been with me 2 years now, I would say it was not worth it and would not have bothered trying anymore. They will have made me so ill with the stress of it all I will no longer be fit enough to look after her if they carry on!!

Sorry, sounding off. I am stressed at the moment, and a bit teary! No doubt I will calm down and tomorrow I will be back to my fighting self.
DGD has a sore leg, and we have to take her to the doctors at 5.30 this evening. I thought that she was pulling mine, but she is continually limping on the same one, and will not put her leg down properly, yet she will cross her legs, and is shaking her foot with her leg bent at the moment, so I really am at a loss as to what she may have done. She said she did it in bed playing with her cars last night? I didnt hear anything, and so I am not sure what she has done. I just hope that I dont have to go to A & E as I dont think I could face it tonight.

Savvy_sewing

Well there is a little euphoria.
I just had a call from my solicitor to say that she has finally had the authorisation of the funding through for the guardianship. So I am going to see her next Wednesday.

I also told her that I will not have anything else to do with the dam Social workers they can do it all through her now. So angry at it all!
She said that she would be able to tell the courts of this if I do want to do that.
We will see.

DGD has an appointment at the doctors at 5.30. She is still complaining about a hurt leg, and after 11 hours there must be something or she would surely have forgotten about it by now. Anyway lets hope that its nothing serious. I could do with out that for her. (and me),

Elle7

I'm glad you've had a bit of good news today!

How is DGDs leg? I hope it was okay...A&E is a nightmare for me and I'm 21, at 4 it must be unbearable!

Jo4

How's DGDs leg, did the doctors find out what was wrong?

Savvy_sewing

Well we saw the doctor. He said that he didnt think it was much, she is showing some small bruising on her shin and knee. To take calpol and then if she is not feeling better in 24-48 hours then to take her back as there are sometimes things that children can have that are unexplained.
So we will see.
But I appreciate all the well wishes for her, and the concern.
She is up in bed now. Hopefully she will sleep properly.

I am tired and I am so fed up today. It will be a blessing to get to bed!.

Jo4

I am delighted to hear that it doesn't appear to be anything major! :j

Savvy_sewing

Well I had hoped that DGD would have woken up feeling better, but alas she seems to be worse. We will have to monitor her carefully today. Even with the idea of Fireworks and her party to go to, she said my BF would have to go to the fireworks on his own and her friends would all have to play together without her.! Well I cannot for the life of me think that that is normal for such a robust child, who runs around non stop all the time.
How long could a 4 year old pretend? Surely not this long?
I am worried, and considering asking if the doctor can pop over after his surgery.
I shall see how she is doing this morning if she doesnt think anyone is watching her, and if she forgets. But I am more hoping then believing at the moment.

I too have the doctors today, and the Physio, so its not going to be much of a resting day for me.
I hope DGD doesnt expect me to carry her much, she is so heavy, and bringing her down the stair nearly crippled me this morning.
All tablets taken. Cup of tea, no.2. Lets hope it all starts to ease soon.
Twin1 rang me at 10pm last night, (woke me up) to say that DS had come back from Towcester Races and was drunk, had been sick in his room and passed out! She reckoned she couldnt deal with it.
So I said make sure he is breathing, and then leave him to sleep it off. Make him clear it up when he wakes up.! Sounds a bit calous when you read it, but what could I do? Sometimes I do wonder why they telephone me.!
I am due to go there this morning, but if DGD is not walking then there is no way I can get her to the car, and then at the other end up stairs to the flat. But we will see. I am usually mind over matter kind of person, so we will just have to see.

Keeping_Motivated

How about taking DGD to A&E for an xray this morn I'm guessing that will be their quietest time and will save a trip later once the doc has seen her because that's surely what the doc will suggest as he will need to rule that out..

I think your instinct that she isn't just 'faking' is correct..what little girl would pass up on a party!

Hope she gets sorted bless her

Savvy_sewing

I think that I shall telephone the doctors and see what he suggests. I dont want to be wasting time, but I really also dont want to be wasting resources if its just a bruised shin! So frustrating not to be decisive enough!
Think this is going to turn out to be a heck of a day! Again. If yesterday wasnt emotional enough, the stress levels are enough to put the blood pressure back up.