PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING

Hello Forumites! However well-intentioned, for the safety of other users we ask that you refrain from seeking or offering medical advice. This includes recommendations for medicines, procedures or over-the-counter remedies. Posts or threads found to be in breach of this rule will be removed.
We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

The Great Declutter Part 3 - 2011

Options
14950525455346

Comments

  • Mumof2_2
    Mumof2_2 Posts: 2,694 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Wow, feel invigorated - sorted out the area by my desk here, threw out a huge bag full of rubbish, put heaps in the recycling and given DH some stuff he may/may not want to keep - he can have the final say so. If he wants to keep it he can find somewhere to keep it.

    I've put some of the stuff I want to sell in the crate and will start listing it soon. I'm already feeling more in control.

    By the way, also found a ticket for a free trip for the 4 of us on a boat and 4 free swimming tickets - I had no idea they were in there :T

    Decluttering ROCKS!!!
    Flymarkeeteer: £168 and counting
  • Yorkielass
    Yorkielass Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Brilliant Mumof2 - I tend to find random vouchers when I'm tidying, despite have a pot I supposedly put this kind of thing in...

    tattycath can anyone help you with ebaying/amazon etc - share the listings/take things to the post office etc? If not and it's the sort of stuff that would car boot could you gradually get things ready for a car boot sale and then do one in the spring with the help of some family/friends?
    Initial Mortgage January 2024 - £160,000
    Initial Mortgage free date - January 2058
    Mortgage as of 1st February 2024 - £159,134.98
    Overpayments to date - £79.62
    Current Mortgage free date - January 2058
  • Callisto
    Callisto Posts: 928 Forumite
    2boysmum wrote: »
    I am married to a hoarder! Every cupboard, drawer and shelf we have is full to bursting with junk. I can never find anything when I'm looking for it, he always knows roughly where something is but trying to find it in there is a nightmare. I would love to be looking for something and be able to open a cupboard and there it was. I have had enough now and have told him that I am going to start getting rid of some stuff and finally he has agreed that there is far too much clutter for the space we have!!


    Oooh, don't get me started about hoarding OH's! Mine is terrible, all the decluttering I have done so far is 95% my stuff and 5% his after me pleading with him to let items go.

    We have a kitchen display cabinet/dresser with 3 small drawers, 3 larger drawers and 3 bottom cupboards. 4 of the drawers and 2 of the cupboards are stuffed with what looks like useless bits of his tat! He even has one cupboard containing just computer and tv cables and wires! Aagh!

    He won't get rid of things in case they are useful or worth something in the future. I really don't understand his logic, I would rather have the space now and will kick myself in 40 years time if something did turn out to be valuable!!
  • Mumof2_2
    Mumof2_2 Posts: 2,694 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    What is it with men and hoarding? I just can't understand it. DH broke his leg when I was pg with DD (now 8) - he still has the cast they took off his leg :eek:! Can he use it again? Can anyone else use it? No!!!! So why keep it?

    I think there should be a national support forum for everyone who has hoarding OHs!!!!
    Flymarkeeteer: £168 and counting
  • Callisto wrote: »
    He won't get rid of things in case they are useful or worth something in the future. I really don't understand his logic, I would rather have the space now and will kick myself in 40 years time if something did turn out to be valuable!!

    My oh is the same and I totally agree with you. To be fair, lots of nagging and serious lack of space has ensured my oh probably isn't has bad as yours as he has allowed me to get rid of quite a bit of his rubbish. But he still insisted on keeping random junk like a 10 year old MP3 player *the type you put homemade disks in) which hasn't been used in over 8 years and he has an Ipod touch and will be getting an iphone soon as it's safe to say he will never use it again.

    Today I haven't done much but I did sort through a small carrier bag of stuff and find a ridiculous amount of highlighter pens! I threw away all the dried out ones but theres still about 10 left, along with a load of other pens.
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    both myself and my husband are hoarders :o we have both decided to have a good sort out this year. He is busy most of the time so i have took it upon myself to tell him that myself and our daughters will sort out the loft...before the end of february i have pledged to have got rid of at least 2/3 of the contents... watch this space...
    GE 36 *MFD may 2043
    MFIT-T5 #60 £136,850.30
    Mortgage overpayments 2019 - £285.96
    2020 Jan-£40-feb-£18.28.march-£25
    Christmas savings card 2020 £20/£100
    Emergency savings £100/£500
    12/3/17 175lb - 06/11/2019 152lb
  • Hi all, well done on all the progress this week :T

    I never seem to get much done during the week, but I finally took the slow cooker which I never use over to a friend who was desperate for one. So that's one fairly big thing out today!

    In over the past couple of days were a telephone extension cable (needed due to rearranging our lounge) and a liquid chalk marker for writing on food storage jars so I know what's in them.
  • Spent 2 hours today sorting receipts & updating expenditure spread sheet. Have listed 3 items in the last 3 days to sell (target is 15 items this month listed)
    Tomorrow I will try & shred the pile that is spilling over the floor next to the shredder & put empty paint pots in shed waiting to go to tip (empty paint pots & full are currently sprawled together on the study floor - paint shop had 25% off in November so we stocked up as whole house has been replastered but DH said it cannot live in the shed because it is too cold!!)
    I have listed all food in cupboards over the last 3 days & stuck list on side of freezer next to freezer contents list. This is to help me meal plan a week ahead & spend less on groceries.
    I think my clutter is infectious if I leave it it seems too big a task but by doing a few bits this week I am positive & spurred on to keep going - I think my motto needs to be to declutter little & often as trying to tackle too much just leads to me giving up

    I love reading everyone else's efforts on here & hope that this year I will just keep going until it is done
    Declutter 2023  110/520
    Jan grocery challenge 324.44/350 25.56 spare
    Feb grocery challenge 204.45/280
    March gc 0/310

    23 minutes a day self care, decluttering, tidying or cleaning 
  • Sue14
    Sue14 Posts: 988 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    I sorted out my sewing box on Tuesday night, got rid of a few bits of junk that had found their way in there, (??) a few buttons in the bottom have now gone in the button box, safety pins are all together, and a couple of crochet hooks are now in with my knitting and crochet stuff (planning to get back into knitting and crochet this year, after finding some unfinished bits and some wool, in the 'cupboard of doom'), the sewing box now looks very tidy!

    I've had a carrier bag of bits to be sewn at the side of the sofa for months, (mostly OH's socks) and I've finally got around to sewing some of them, so I've only got about half a bag to do now! Also got rid of some cardboard and paper, and I've got bids on 4 items on Ebay, so they will be going next week.

    Tomorrow I will finally be sorting out the spare room as I have a day off work. OH brought me a few boxes home to get things sorted into, and he will do a CS run on Saturday so hopefully I'll get rid of a few more bits.
    Weight loss challenge 2/10lbs


  • Claire_Bear
    Claire_Bear Posts: 1,372 Forumite
    Today I made a start in the kitchen, threw loads of rubbish away, old takeaway cartons etc It was a bit Kim-and-Aggie-tastic :eek: Also cleared out our cupboard, threw away some old packets and jars of food that had been there since the dawn of time (feels like it anway) and stuff that will just never get used. Going to start washing and packing away some stuff that we probably won't use between now and moving, like cake tins and casserole dishes so they're out of the way. Also sorted out our drawer with the tin foil and sandwich bags and things in and threw a bit away. Casting my eye ruthlessly around the appliances like the slow cooker and coffee maker that never get used and thinking of sticking them on eBay.

    No takers for my notice board on Freegle so will put that in my Car Boot Sale eBay lot when I finish getting everything together.
    D'you know, in 900 years of space and time, I've never met anyone who wasn't important
    The Doctor
    Taste The Rainbow :heartsmil
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.