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  • I have a kitchen one person can fit in. 2 kitchens is madness!
    Trying to shift that debt!
  • I like to cook :p. No it's a developement and that is a selection of different types of rooms you can choose. I wouldn't care I love them all ;).

    Well I am one worried mum tonight and furious and confused and not actually quite sure how to feel to be honest My DS was out with friends on Saturday at the swimming. Whilst they were waiting at the train station they were approached by 2 men who asked them if anyone had a big sister. My DS of course said yes :mad: gave them her name, age and area we come from:eek:. I said to him why didn't you give them her bl**dy phone number. He then said he had lots of freebie Avon stuff if she wanted to come and collect it from his house. DS cottoned on then to starnge goings on and said no he didnt think she would be interested so gut said he could come and collect the stuff and it would all be gift wrapped for DD but also mentioned that it would be okay for her to come down herself as she was 17 :eek:. DS walked away then and quite rightly called me but he then made a rather inappropriate suggestion to DS's friend which could perhaps have been construed as a joke but in hindsight I dont think it was. These men were about 40 yrs old. I went immediately and picked the boys up and when I went to get out of the car to go and see who the man was my son burst into tears and just said no mum please just get away from here. I then thought that they had been on the wind up and things had got out of hand and the mnen had scared them. So I listened to all their stories and decided that there was nothing that bad but gave them a lecture on winding up adults and talking to strangers etc etc. DS was quite freaked out as one man had only one leg and kept referring to his stump, he hardly slept all night as he was freaked out ( his words) . I found out today that DD's friend was accosted by this man last night and he spoke inappropriately to her and also touched her inappropriately. I called her mum to see what had happened and then called the police. They are coming to interview my son but I have also now found out that he has approached a number of kids over the last few days. The police were at the station tonight as it is where the high school kids get the train home to the outlying areas. I'll need to callthe school tomorrow and alert them again incase they think that tonight's police presence will stop things and that this was a one off event as it certainly does not seem to be. I am worried as I have only started allowing DS out himself recently and now my confidence and his has been shot, I'm angry at this guy as who does he think he is and I just dont get why people do these things and I am confused as I just want to cuddle my son but I dont want to scare him so I am playing things down. I am sooooooo mad though I could literally choke this man :mad::mad:. How Fu**ing dare he do this. It's all over face book now to warn the local kids so I reckon it will stop as he will no doubt get a beating if he goes near the station now but OMG why are these pervy b**tards allow to walk the streets. Why do we decent humans have to put up with this sh*t. Sorry about the language but I am furious ( with the F word in front of it :o)

    Been rubbush with money and diet today too just to top it off and work is pants :eek:. I reckon the PMT is turning it up here :rotfl:
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • nonnie44
    nonnie44 Posts: 478 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts
    I'm sorry to hear about all this, you wonder what the world is coming to sometimes. Hope they catch the SOB soon - feel free to choke him if you come across him - I'm sure the police would appreciate the help! Hope DS is feeling a little better although I'm sure it must take a while to get over something like that.
  • Its hard not to react and stop kids going out!!.

    Theres some filthy dirty horrible people.

    Need drowning in a vat of bleach. Hope you and yours are all ok, and your son is getting over it. hope the police have been sensitive. x
    Trying to shift that debt!
  • Poor you and DS . Its so hard when kids get old enough to be out on their own. DD1 had a taxi driver stop her and a friend in the street once offering them a lift. They were only 12 :eek:. Thing is you cant wrap them up in cotton wool.


    PS on the time of the month the other day saw a few to many mini donuts eaten!
    :j
    May 2013 new beginnings:j
  • Hi folks. Thanks for the support. DS is fine. Finding the whole thing quite exciting to be honest as he has never had any dealings with the police and he is looking forward to being interviewed :p. I called the school today and apparently the guy has been warned off by the police and police have already been to the school to deal with it. Until I called mind you they thought that it was only one incident but he has approached loads of kids so no doubt he will be spoken to again. He is a drug addict, hence the loss of the leg, and has been in prison before for stabbing someone. I just dont want my kids subjected to scum like that. EEW :eek:. My language was rich in my post last night :o:o ever so sorry :rotfl::o. Never professed to be an angel mind you :A.

    Diet is still pants and spends not a lot better. I think I need to read a few chapters of my motivation book again and sort myself out for another wee while. No paymnets made but I am nearly in the 16k's :j. I'm well excited about that :D. I hope you are all doing well xx
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • a payment came out today and check out my siggy. i'm in the 16's :j:D. So happy
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • May2013
    May2013 Posts: 423 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    :j Bl$$dy fantastic...well done for waving goodbye to the 17's....sweet 16 is sooo much better ;)
    LBM Aug '07 Debt [STRIKE]£52,615[/STRIKE] :eek: DEBT FREE Aug '12 :j
    Cap One CC £[STRIKE]5000[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC CC £[STRIKE]7500[/STRIKE]/£0 - HSBC Loan £[STRIKE]12,225[/STRIKE]/£0
    M&S CC £[STRIKE]11,500[/STRIKE]/£0 - Egg CC £[STRIKE]8750[/STRIKE]/£0 - Sains CC £[STRIKE]3000[/STRIKE]/£0
    HMRC £[STRIKE]3140[/STRIKE]/£0 - OD £[STRIKE]1500[/STRIKE]/£0
    Pay off ALL your debt by Xmas 2012 £14,128/£14,128 :j
  • oh I so agree May. Really happy but looking toget under 15k that's my big target now :D
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • Hi mit
    sorry not been on for couple of days. So sorry to hear what happened hope you are all ok. That is sick they make my skin crawl. Thr thing is police hands are tied and that s the worse thing obviously his last warning didnt work so they need to something about it. how is it your kids cant even catch a train without some sicko being around. i hate this world sometimes horrible place.
    Well done on your new target keep it going girl. i keep dreaming about your house!!!!
    I fell off the wagon totally yesterday and i am absolouteley gutted. never mind up and onwards.
    Mum 30k/29000
    BC1 11500/11300
    BC2 10500/10300
    BC3 6500/6400 NW 950/800 Next 600/450
    Here we go a again!!!:mad: DFD Oct 2016 hopefully!!!
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