How do I get my bf to give me rent.

yvonne13_2

DVardysShadow wrote: »

BTW, it would be interesting to find who is on the mobile no he was ringing .... you might not realise how big your lucky escape is.

WOW I just rang the number as it was bothering me, I just had to know who he was ringing and boy have I been a mug.

The woman that answered the phone confirmed she had been seeing my now ex for a while and had met him during Boot Camp. The woman is in her late 40's and seems really nice. I don't blame her as he told her I was his sister.
So yes I had a lucky escape his scam or plan has failed because he also met me at Boot Camp and he has now asked her if he can move in with her in the new year.

sonastin

yvonne13 wrote: »

The woman is in her late 40's

Wow - he really is after a "surrogate mum with benefits" isn't he?!
:rotfl:

mlz1413

Depends on how you feel but I would ring her back and tell her you are not his sister but his g/f until yesterday.

If she knows he lied to you at least she will know to be careful. He will probably tell her your a jealous type of some such rubbish but at least he won't be able to continue taking her for mug and will hopefully be with his mother for Xmas & NY as they are the only people who deserve each other.

Cheek of ringing his 2nd g/f from the 1st g/f's phone!!

Sorry re-read post and HE told her you were his sister,not you. Either way well shot of him.

IronWolf

What a sponging b*stard.

Take him to small claims court for the phone bill, bring the woman you talked to as a witness that you do not know her and it was him making the calls.

geoffky

what's boot camp?

Phone his mother and tell her about his crocodile tears.

yvonne13_2

geoffky wrote: »

what's boot camp?

Its outside training with ex army members they do it in the local parks and it helps you keep fit and or lose weight.

hazyjo

Don't chase for anything, walk away. It's mentally damaging to do anything else. Keep your head high and never contact him ever again. Delete his number from your phone so you don't drunk text/phone, and go find yourself a decent grown up man. The best revenge is never getting back in touch and never showing you're bothered. His mum will never side with you, so don't bother telling her what he's done.

Write it off as a bad chapter and something you can learn from. Someone perfect out there for you - guarantee it.

Good luck.

Jx

t0rt0ise

Don't forget to tell the council and get your council tax discount back.

paddy's_mum

I'm sorry to worry you but with a man showing so many signs of bedrock dishonesty and I'm-alright-Jack morality, you might be wise to get your sexual health checked out asap.

diable

Phone his Mum and tell her you are pregnant with twins, that'll screw her Christmas, afterwards you can just say the hospital messed up...........