Been asked out....timing awful...any advice?!? **UPDATE POST #38!**

emsywoo123

jcr16 wrote: »

at the end of the day your body has created two lives. all the bumps, lumps and scars ( i've had 3 sections in 4 yrs so i do understand ) are there for a reason so be proud.

This is so important, and I will remember, thank you for reminding me :A

delain

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Now you see I thought it might be the same with him.....but noooooooooo....recent pics on Facebook show he has grown from a cute 18/19 year old into um a tasty looking man :T

I'd go for it if I was you. You can always say you want to take things slowly.

He's obviously seen you on FB as well and must like what he sees

emsywoo123

delain wrote: »

I'd go for it if I was you. You can always say you want to take things slowly.

He's obviously seen you on FB as well and must like what he sees

Hiya delain, I'm no fool, no recent FB pics of me on there Oh well one at 8 months pregnant :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

delain

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Hiya delain, I'm no fool, no recent FB pics of me on there Oh well one at 8 months pregnant :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Well how much different can you look :rotfl::rotfl:

Most women have wobbly bits, it's something he will have found out by now.

How us your little man doing? I was going to PM you but my baby brain destroyed that idea as well :rotfl:

emsywoo123

delain wrote: »

Well how much different can you look :rotfl::rotfl:

Most women have wobbly bits, it's something he will have found out by now.

How us your little man doing? I was going to PM you but my baby brain destroyed that idea as well :rotfl:

Should I have mentioned before now that this guy is a dad.....it's all part of the draw, I know he is a very good father trying to seperate all these things in my head is not easy!!

Lil man groovy, bit colicky but scrummy-dumptious all the same thanks hun

mum2twinsx2

Go for it you never what will become of it. You may regret if you never give it chance.

Im due to try my spandex out just before xmas, and my section was 6months ago, hide the hang over.

dustystar02

Woo hoo - firstly - GO EMSY

Well done you on getting some much deserved good luck

go for it, he knows all about you and obviously you have changed looks wise since but the messaging on FB obv shows he loves your humour and manner. Maybe a little date out and the chance to glam up is just what a new mum needs?

Plus, if nothing comes of it, what have you lost?

DO IT DO IT DO IT

Nicki

sarymclary wrote: »

Regardless of how you feel about yourself, you shouldn't be looking at getting physically involved with anyone prior to your post-natal check-up (not making any judgement there, just a medical note). You'll probably have worked out that you get more tired post CS, than after a normal birth, so don't let him think you'll be up to chats into the small hours if he wants to come over, or take you out.

Good luck!

I suspect 3 weeks postpartum with a chap she hasn't seen for 10 years, this will not be high on her list of priorities. Particularly if she opts for the spanx

However, medically I am fairly sure there is no reason to wait until the 6 week check out. I've had 3 children, 2 of whom were c sections and on each occasion on discharge from hospital I've been given advice on temporary contraception to use until a long term solution is discussed at the 6 week check. Never been told to abstain, and I suspect if you are told to its due to your own medical situation rather than a blanket ban for everyone.

delain

Nicki wrote: »

I suspect 3 weeks postpartum with a chap she hasn't seen for 10 years, this will not be high on her list of priorities. Particularly if she opts for the spanx

However, medically I am fairly sure there is no reason to wait until the 6 week check out. I've had 3 children, 2 of whom were c sections and on each occasion on discharge from hospital I've been given advice on temporary contraception to use until a long term solution is discussed at the 6 week check. Never been told to abstain, and I suspect if you are told to its due to your own medical situation rather than a blanket ban for everyone.

I asked a MW once (I think after the twins) and she said once the bleeding has stopped it's fine, but that you're very fertile after a birth (or an mc or termination) and she also said she better not see me in 9 months time :rotfl:

hngrymummy

I'd say it's bloomin good timing, not bad timing. Just when you need real company, the kind that doesn't vomit on you when you give it a cuddle, up pops this offer. In your FB profile pic you look lovely, so stop panicking about what you look like!

Why not suggest meeting for a coffee in the daytime. It's a bit less formal than an evening date.

BTW, :beer: on being asked out.