Frightened of my lodger - help???

sugarbabe-47

[QUOTE As someone else suggested, you need to get something in writing from your 'friend' that he has collected all his stuff, in good condition etc. and get the police to witness this if possible.
Yes already done a statement ready for him to sign;)
Also, could you take photos of his stuff, the rooms he used etc. in case there are any queries/conflicts at a later date? Just to protect your interests. The police would only be able to see he has taken the goods, not record the condition, quantities etc.
And lol - I had already thought of this and my son came round and took photo's of everything packed neatly, securely and safely. Nothing damaged/broken and a written statement to that effect, duly signed by 2 witnessess!! Also of the room he was in.:D
Not long to wait now. Stay strong, Sugar. Am doing thanks
Take care.QUOTE]

Also when packing his stuff we came across more letters addressed to the*householder* - and other letters stuffed behind furniture, he is heavily in debt and being chased by all and sundry:eek: we also found his new phone number, and other debt letters that he was hiding...I am going to inform these people where he works and pass on his new phone number:D When he comes tomorrow It aint open for negotiation about collection, it all goes at once else it will be left on the drive- despite what the Police say. I owe him nothing. My strength is slowly coming back;)
I couldn't have got this far without all of your support and advice - ever so grateful, and inner peace is slowly restoring:)
Sugar x

Tupperware_Queen

followed this after seeing on BR forum. Stay strong hun, you are in the right. good luck for tonight xxx

blue_monkey_2

Good luck for tonight sugar, we'll all be waiting for an update. I know you are going to feel awful thinking about tonight but try and put it out of your head until tonight.

Remember if he says anything just tell him that any future contact, be that in person, on the phone or online will be passed to the police because it is harrassment and he will face charges for that. IF you does not leave you alone you could see a solicitor (you may get legal aid) and get an injunction served on him. I know they are not set in stone but at least it will show him you mean business and will not be walked over any longer and then he MAY face charges of he breaks the injunction.

I'll be thinking of you. x

Accountant_Kerry

You sound like a different person from the person of a few days ago sugar, well done!! Last installment tonight then you can have soem peace and relaxation time. hugs to you and the doggie. x

sugarbabe-47

Tupperware_Queen wrote: »

followed this after seeing on BR forum. Stay strong hun, you are in the right. good luck for tonight xxx

awe thanks TQ Sorry I havent been on my usual forum, but hey ho now you know why!!! Cant help other peeps when my head has been a shed!!!! Good grief any more poo to come my way??? what doesnt kill ya makes ya stronger right?? I was soooooooooooo low and very near breaking point mentally over the last couple of months, but with the support here I have pulled through:T

New year, bloody new start me thinks - in every direction:D

Be *home* to B/R soon :A

Sugar xxx

sugarbabe-47

blue_monkey wrote: »

Good luck for tonight sugar, we'll all be waiting for an update. I know you are going to feel awful thinking about tonight but try and put it out of your head until tonight.


I'll be thinking of you. x

Thanks BM, got to admit I feel a little apprehensive about tonight but hopefully should be ok, got neighbours on standby too:D

sugar x

sugarbabe-47

Accountant_Kerry wrote: »

hugs to you and the doggie. x

awe thank you and funny thing is my lovely dog seems to be back to her old self again- I've not seen her tail wagging like this for a couple of months-so she is happy again:)
Makes me so angry to think what he has done to her:mad:

Sugar x

nell53

Your dog obviously takes after you. Keep going, not long now.

All_eBayed_Out

I whistled a tune this morning and it goes...... "Out in the snow he goes" Goodbye!
:wave::wave:

sugarbabe-47

All_eBayed_Out wrote: »

I whistled a tune this morning and it goes...... "Out in the snow he goes" Goodbye!
:wave::wave:

Oh dear naughty, but true :snow_laug