real life MMD: Should I keep dating for freebies?

Cleany

you can either be honest with yourself and lie down, or be honest with him and get a life

22225

for the next few dates go somewhere free or cheap like a country walk or an art gallery. then you will be able to assess how much you actually like him without the distraction of more fun surroundings. if you don't fancy or like him much away from all the razzamatazz you need to end it, but if you think he's ok keep going but just do more boring/cheap dates until you either fall in love or get bored and end it. you might grow to love him, and being treated like you're special is part of what makes you like a man, but i think you are getting too distracted by the fun dinners to accurately assess how much you do/could feel for him. you might end up really liking him

kinkyjinks

serendipity2706 wrote: »

As an old person who doesn't 'do' text talk, what does this mean?
Thanks

I do text talk but I had to google it too. AFC=Average Frustrated Chump and PUA=Pick Up Artist, from some site called fast seduction. I'd have posted a link but some of the stuff made me go :eek::eek:, pretty much the same way reading the OP made me feel.

pjsmiffy

... well after a few "dates" he will want to up the contact. In a way the "lady" will pay with her virtue.
That is a short hop to Bel De Jure.

LongTermLurker

at best she's a fraudster and at worst a tart (and I don't mean in the account-hopping way )

"happy to be a (card/account) tart"

Fradler

How dare you treat this poor guy so badly! I was so incensed I had to join the forum in order to reply. You are stringing this poor guy along, and in the process not only hurting this guy, but damaging the overall image of the female population. Not all females are nasty, and most females these days are behaving worse than most males, where is your heart, get back in touch with your feminine side quickly. Would you rob your own grandmother? Enough said.

craftycrafter

kinkyjinks wrote: »

I do text talk but I had to google it too. AFC=Average Frustrated Chump and PUA=Pick Up Artist, from some site called fast seduction. I'd have posted a link but some of the stuff made me go :eek::eek:, pretty much the same way reading the OP made me feel.

I couldn't find the "thanks" button, so here are my thanks.

Marco12452

Own up and ship out, !!!!!!!!!!s who prey on other individuals are just north of pondlife.
Imagine how you would feel if someone was preying on you.

JayD

OMG - you need to ask?

Come clean and ditch him - he will be well rid of you!

raddyantic

It's good to see on here that most people condemn this type of behaviour and rightly so. She is not interested but is keeping him interested which is unfair playing with someones emotions. Chances are that the chap is nice, loyal, and would be there for her - but hey so can a dog. And you my friend are being treated like one!