Immoral_angel's Debt Diary

tigtag02

SEK wrote: »

Oh dear. I really didn't mean to offend anyone. As i said in my original post if nobody else wanted it then fair enough. What IA does with it now is up to her this wasn't my concern.
I have read her diary from the begining and yes she does do a good job, but she really doesn't have it as hard as alot of DFW do.

Ok, I am going to respond to this without reading others firts which is probably a mistake but...

...HOW DARE YOU. That has got to be one of the most hurtful comments I have ever heard. Who are you to judge how hard she has *it* and one persons *problems* are NEVER comparable to another.

I think you need to learn to think before you judge!!

SEK_2

spud30 wrote: »

IA is very well thought of SEK.

I'm not sure how you can say that compared to others, she's got it easier.

Compared to me she does have it easier. I hope that i'm not the only person in the world that has it this hard. The only way i keep going is by thinking that others out there have it far worse than me and cope.

tigtag02

SEK wrote: »

I have read the whole of IA's diary, and while i appreciate that IA does have it hard and has done an excellent job, alot of people have it alot harder than IA including myself. I am not juding anybody.
I follow IA's diary daily and in no way am i criticising her.

Myself and my Dh have 2 young children of our own and also have my dh teenager brother living with us after my mil died of cancer 4yrs ago. We have no other family to help us. It's just the 5 of us. My Dh works 70-80hrs pw and i work 25-30hrs pw just to provide a roof over or heads and food on the table. The debts are run up from when mil was ill paying for care, funeral and a whole load of financial mess she had left us with. We have no help with childcare so this means my dh gets 3-4hrs sleep a day which is making his health suffer and he's only 32. Life is very tough for us but we all get on with it. Some days when i read IA's diary i just wish that all i had to worry about was her problems and life would be so much better for us. I am also sure there are people out there with far worse problems than mine.

Please tell me why the above makes your *problems* or debt worse than IA's
or are we unfortunately dealing with a case of the green eyed monster.

spud30

SEK wrote: »

Compared to me she does have it easier. I hope that i'm not the only person in the world that has it this hard. The only way i keep going is by thinking that others out there have it far worse than me and cope.

I think you have said enough.

You have no right to judge who was a hard time. You walk in no-one's shoes but your own.

Snaggles

SEK wrote: »

I am not a troll. I am a real person with real feelings. Not once have i criticised IA i have said that she does a good job. I was just saying that alot of people have it alot harder.

I dont often post but i read regulary and get alot of good advice.

I wasn't calling you a troll - if you look at my post I was calling Spud a troll AS A JOKE. (She disagreed with me, see? And the criticism that was levied at us yesterday was that we call anyone who disagrees with us a troll. Oh dear, it's not funny if you have to explain it lol!)

I don't think you are a troll, just rather insensitive. How on can you say IA doesn't have it as hard as you - you don't live her life, you can't possibly know this. Never judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes.

tigtag02

SEK wrote: »

Compared to me she does have it easier. I hope that i'm not the only person in the world that has it this hard. The only way i keep going is by thinking that others out there have it far worse than me and cope.

I really hope that you dont mean how this actually sounds?!

spud30

tigtag02 wrote: »

I really hope that you dont mean how this actually sounds?!

That's exactly what I was thinking Tig

benbenandme

Well, I haven't been around all week cos I've been moving house, and I can't believe I've popped back in and found this !! Whats going on??? :mad::o:D I missed you guys heaps, please don't all argue!! Anyway, I won't be around again much for a couple of weeks (broadband isnt connected till 17th, am at a friends now), but hope we're all being nice to each other again by then !;):D

spud30

benbenandme wrote: »

Well, I haven't been around all week cos I've been moving house, and I can't believe I've popped back in and found this !! Whats going on??? :mad::o:D I missed you guys heaps, please don't all argue!! Anyway, I won't be around again much for a couple of weeks (broadband isnt connected till 17th, am at a friends now), but hope we're all being nice to each other again by then !;):D

We're not arguing Benben, just defending IA from a troll :mad:

Hope the move went smoothly - come back soon wont you :beer:

tigtag02

hiya ben :)

Hope the move went smooth :) Get that broadband on and get back in

We're not arguing, we are just standing up for IA as the green eyes monsters drop in