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Immoral_angel's Debt Diary

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  • SSB
    SSB Posts: 332 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi

    I agree with the previous posters regarding SEK and starting her own diary, we will be much more able to support her there. This is IA's diary and should therefore be about her and her life.

    We respect the effort she makes and enjoy reading about her triumphs/tribulations, therefore any major issues other people are experiencing -please start your own diary.
    SSB :D
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    "Last edited by tigtag02 : Today at 10:38 PM. Reason: sorry Karma, I spelt your name wrong!!! "

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • SEK_2
    SEK_2 Posts: 99 Forumite
    I was in no way judging IA. I am sorry if it came across like i was. I am not very good at typing or putting things into words, hence i dont post often. Things dont come across the same way in text. I was not comparing my problems to IA's I was just trying to say that life is hard for everyone and some have it harder than others. By posting my situation i was just trying to show that i wasn't a troll.
    I wasn't hoping that others have it harder than me. I meant that others have a far harder life than me and they remain positive and carry on. Which makes me thankfull for what i have. A home, food and healthy children.
    I wasn't judging IA in my first post about the bass. I did say if no one else wanted it then fair enough. Again probaly came across wrong due to lack of typing skills.
    I follow alot of IA's and others tips and we run a pretty tight ship.
    I didn't mean to hijack IA's thread but i was trying to defend myself.
    I have learnt a lesson tonight. People can be very harsh and fairly unkind just from me not translating my spoken word into text correctly.
    I wont post again. Sorry again IA for any offence caused.
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I'm sorry thats what you're taking from it SEK. I can see part of what you were trying to say - I hope you'll post in your own thread, and maybe gain some peace from that.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Hi IA,

    I've never posted on your thread before but I've followed your diary for weeks now and just wanted to say well done for what you've achieved so far. You have two beautiful little girls and an obviously loving and supportive husband - altogether you are a lovely family and because of all the hard work and sacrifices you've made, you deserve to be debt free and able to enjoy life with your girls.

    All I will say about the bass is enjoy it!

    SEK - I'm truly sorry to read about your troubles and it seems that you've got off on the wrong foot. I can only echo others here and suggest that you post in your own thread and allow all the great people on this forum to help you and support you as they do with everyone.

    Keep up the good work IA - you really are an inspiration!
    Debt £171000 - Current Debt £168883
    Between Oct 08 and Apr 09 Pay off £12k = £2117/£12000
    £2 Savings Pot = £8
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Well, well, well, I don't log on for one night and looks whats happening here lol

    IA - hope your OK and not taking to heart what's been said here, (but look at all the support you've got from your friends) we all have problems with varying degrees and I admit I have got it easy compared to most. You've done extremely well over the last few months and have the determination to get this paid off - keep going girl x

    SEK -Sorry for your problems, as suggested how about starting your own diary/thread and asking for help. Everyone here is extremely helpful and will pop on and try and help you with some ideas to save money and become debt-free.

    As for the bass - if it was going to the landfill anyway, what harm has it done by IA having it and doing it up? Nobody else wanted it.
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    SEK wrote: »
    I have learnt a lesson tonight. People can be very harsh and fairly unkind just from me not translating my spoken word into text correctly.
    I wont post again. Sorry again IA for any offence caused.

    SEK,

    We weren't being harsh OR unkind, simply defending a friend from some seemingly harsh comments.

    The trouble is, all we have to go on is what you type, we unfortunately dont know how you mean to say it, or any feelings behind your words.

    As I suggested last night, please start your own thread and we will do all we can to help you.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Where is IA today, she's not been on here since all this kicked off. Hope she's OK
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    GirlRacer wrote: »
    Where is IA today, she's not been on here since all this kicked off. Hope she's OK

    I was wondering that GR :confused:
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    I do hope that she's not upset by all this.
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