Immoral_angel's Debt Diary

spud30

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

lol.. I just can't believe I didn't log on for a while and came back to all this! Going to have to employ some security guards at this rate :rotfl:

We all did our best to look after you and your thread

silkglade

Right, I went off to work last night, just got up and read all that happened!!!!

Well you are probably all going to have a go at me but I fell it necessary to say.

Firstly Ia - love you to bits hon and have followed your diary, your ups and downs. good times and bad, think you are an amazing person and feel very honored to know you :T

I think that you have been through so much for somone so young, you cope with far more than i could have ever done.

I know that everyone has been attacking SEK and i understand that everyone feels the need to jump in and defend IA, but as IA came back and said what she thought, in a very IA way that no one else could have done any better, I think that it had to come from her and no one else really.

IA is a very strong person and has a wonderful supportive hubby, i really don't think that she needed any of you jumping in for her (she is more than able and capable as we have seen to cope with anything that comes her way)

I also can't help feeling a little worried about SEK, to me from all the messages from her i think that she is going through a really rough patch and is depressed, when you feel low everything seems 100 times worse and you are always worse off than EVERYONE else.

I obviously feel that here was the wrong place to do it and would really like to encourage her to start her own thread..... but I am not sure that she will feel confident enough to now :mad:

I am sorry if anyone disagrees but really thought it had to be said. Just wanted to voice an un biased view.

Please forgive me!

immoral_angeluk

beanielou wrote: »

Gosh IA , your reply made me tear up.

Wasn't that bad was it? lol!

immoral_angeluk

silkglade wrote: »

Right, I went off to work last night, just got up and read all that happened!!!!

Well you are probably all going to have a go at me but I fell it necessary to say.

Firstly Ia - love you to bits hon and have followed your diary, your ups and downs. good times and bad, think you are an amazing person and feel very honored to know you :T

I think that you have been through so much for somone so young, you cope with far more than i could have ever done.

I know that everyone has been attacking SEK and i understand that everyone feels the need to jump in and defend IA, but as IA came back and said what she thought, in a very IA way that no one else could have done any better, I think that it had to come from her and no one else really.

IA is a very strong person and has a wonderful supportive hubby, i really don't think that she needed any of you jumping in for her (she is more than able and capable as we have seen to cope with anything that comes her way)

I also can't help feeling a little worried about SEK, to me from all the messages from her i think that she is going through a really rough patch and is depressed, when you feel low everything seems 100 times worse and you are always worse off than EVERYONE else.

I obviously feel that here was the wrong place to do it and would really like to encourage her to start her own thread..... but I am not sure that she will feel confident enough to now :mad:

I am sorry if anyone disagrees but really thought it had to be said. Just wanted to voice an un biased view.

Please forgive me!

You're forgiven
Completely see what your saying though. If she would've started her own thread she would've got help but instead she decided to come on here and in her first post in a very iffy way...

spud30

Silk,

If you read back, 3 or 4 of us advised SEK to start her own thread and get help.

We weren't attacking, merely defending a friend who wasnt here to defend herself.

silkglade

I know that SPUD, I am not saying that you all just had a go at her, just that i think some of the things she said were taken the wrong way, some people find it very difficult to express themselves well and do not have much confidence. I know that you all tried to get her to start her own thread.

I did say i was expecting you all to disagree with me :rotfl:

immoral_angeluk

Right boys and girls no more arguments or I'll set Mr T on you!

Karmacat

You're right, IA, when you rehash these things the next day, it just starts up all over again. Thats why when I wrote my long pos t last night, I tried to say at the end that I wouldn't go through it again.

As for Mr T.... well, I'll kick up merry **** if you'll set Daniel Jackson from Stargate SG1 on me (yum);) ......... as it is, with just Mr T threatening, I suppose I'll have to be good (sulks loudly)

KellsBells

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

Right boys and girls no more arguments or I'll set Mr T on you!

You absolute fruitcake! Love it!!

GirlRacer_2

Hi IA:hello:

Look what happens when you turn your back

Glad you OK poppet and absolutely loved your reply :rotfl: you go girl x