We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Call Me Callous if you like....but maybe i'm not.

24567…24

Comments

  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Mustbeananswer?? wrote: »
    Predictable responses.....


    Need some help Fellers!!Isn't five years enough to sort out how you feel about someone???

    I didnt want it to be an Agony Aunt thread!!!


    Please look at this financially!!


    Female opinions don't count? Another gem for Jackie to find out.
  • iB1
    iB1 Posts: 384 Forumite
    Mustbeananswer?? wrote: »
    Predictable responses.....


    Need some help Fellers!!Isn't five years enough to sort out how you feel about someone???

    I didnt want it to be an Agony Aunt thread!!!


    Please look at this financially!!

    I am a "Feller" - my opinion still stands. If she wants her independance then you can't force it out of her. Another poster made a good point. Split up now, then you're single and all your money is yours. How's that for financial advice?
  • Brb
    Brb Posts: 472 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    Female opinions don't count? Another gem for Jackie to find out.

    I would hope after 5 years Jackie would have picked up on this.

    If you're struggling financially, how about getting a lodger instead ?
    Inside this body lays one of a skinny woman
    but I can usually shut her up with chocolate!

    When I thank a post in a thread I've not posted in,
    it means that I agree with that post and have nothing further to add.
  • henpecked1
    henpecked1 Posts: 404 Forumite
    I am sure if she reads this she will be buying a 3 pack of condoms to last you both the year as it will save money.
  • pimento
    pimento Posts: 6,243 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    She might decide she doesn't like the way you leave your toenail clippings on the bathroom floor, or the loo seat up if she moves in.

    Keep a bit of mystery.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • firstaspect
    firstaspect Posts: 487 Forumite
    Mustbeananswer?? wrote: »
    Predictable responses.....


    Need some help Fellers!!Isn't five years enough to sort out how you feel about someone???

    I didnt want it to be an Agony Aunt thread!!!


    Please look at this financially!!

    If you're looking at your relationship financially then you shouldn't be in it. Talk to her about your issues and not talk about it on a public forum. If she doesn't want to live with you then that's her choice.
  • Brb
    Brb Posts: 472 Forumite
    I'd not want to give up the security of tenure with HA property either. Who is to say that you find you couldn't actually live together (I'm a beast to live with haha) she'd then find herself homeless.
    Inside this body lays one of a skinny woman
    but I can usually shut her up with chocolate!

    When I thank a post in a thread I've not posted in,
    it means that I agree with that post and have nothing further to add.
  • Mustbeananswer??
    Mustbeananswer?? Posts: 548 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I was under the impression there was a recession on??

    Everybodies cutting their overheads???


    Sure I could switch an odd light off.Sit huddled in my Sheepskin over a candle all Winter!!To save myself maybe £200.

    Ok you win......we'll see if she still loves me as I leave the Bankruptcy Court....watch this space!!;););)
  • redlady_1
    redlady_1 Posts: 1,601 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Mustbeawindup - get a bloody grip! Have you asked her to move in with you? And what are her reasons for not doing so?
  • hazyjo
    hazyjo Posts: 15,475 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Are you basically saying you need her to move in (for your financial reasons) or you want her to move in?

    Jx
    2024 wins: *must start comping again!*
This discussion has been closed.
★ ★ ★ Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.7K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.3K Life & Family
  • 258.4K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.
Update Your Picture