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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • Dizzyduck
    Dizzyduck Posts: 211 Forumite
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    Also talking of Dizzy how is the Dizzy Duck if she's lurking?


    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx[/QUOTE]

    Budgie

    You never fail to amaze me as it's been so long since I posted here! Yes still a major lurker and also at the "Diner". (hope that doesn't make me a stalker! :eek:)
    My drinking has improved especially with the help of lemon & ginger squash (and this thread of course!) but I still like to catch up with the goss and see how everyone is doing.
    Wish you every sucess with the diet - I'm trying to cut down too but dark nights and cold days make me want comfort food - best pop over to the Diner and check what's cooking.

    Take care all xx
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    edited 11 January 2011 at 9:48PM
    Dizzyduck wrote: »
    [
    Also talking of Dizzy how is the Dizzy Duck if she's lurking?


    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Budgie

    You never fail to amaze me as it's been so long since I posted here! Yes still a major lurker and also at the "Diner". (hope that doesn't make me a stalker! :eek:)
    My drinking has improved especially with the help of lemon & ginger squash (and this thread of course!) but I still like to catch up with the goss and see how everyone is doing.
    Wish you every sucess with the diet - I'm trying to cut down too but dark nights and cold days make me want comfort food - best pop over to the Diner and check what's cooking.

    Take care all xx[/QUOTE]




    Tis good to see you DizzyD my dear :) But please don't be just a lurker pop in more often, and I am sure our Darling Jo will give you a coffee and muffin on the house over in the diner.

    I shall have a word ;)

    I even hear she is giving away Toby vouchers, stick with us on here and who knows you could have one too :D

    As you know we are a friendly bunch.................... Hugs DD and take care (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    So big hugs to everyone and I am short on time today and very, very, very cold :(THAT IS VERY COLD

    But still things are ok apart from that, and Shaggy my Dear I am on 8af days please :D and thankyou for the thumby uppy icon :A oh and for scoring this past year or so ;) :T (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Hello and welcome to JanJan, good luck and take care. xxxxx

    Trasi hugs to you and as many have said it is a phase, but I am with Dear Lurky as I have only had a son, I have no experience of a teenage daughter. But I am sure things will be ok in the end. Take Care (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Miss P so glad piglet is ok and do enjoy your Toby carvery, hope you all have a nice time? Don't cycle too far now ..............(())xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Darling Jo hugs and I hope this week goes the way you want and need it to go? Life is going to get much better for you in 2011 :A (()) xxxxxxxxxxxx

    I hope our Dear Pippi is ok too? And Gc you too mate? And Ym too?

    Also no Sim for what seems like ages now? And I meant to say last night where is Broke P? I also hope Sea is ok too?

    Daisy hugs and take care of yourself, cutting down is fine if that is what you want to do sweetheart. (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    So I had better pootle off now, its Grandmas funeral on Thursday, I have to say I am not looking forward to it. I have always felt very strange over death :o My mother is going to see her in the chapel of rest tomorrow evening, I am not sure what to do????????????

    Special hugs to the special ones ;)

    Ps Sparkles hope your studying/work is going ok?

    Take care everyone
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,858 Forumite
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    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    Why do you feel like you shouldn't be here?? This is a giving up / cutting down thread. Supports given, whatever option you go for. Hope you are ok - don't think anythings been said to make you feel unwelcome?

    Miss P
    xx

    Miss P's absolutely right daisy this thread is for all. But I do know where you're coming from. There are a few on here who feel giving up completely is the only way forward for them which is fine by me. I'm a 'habit to be broken' person like you and I have felt bad about being told words to the effect that I must admit I'm an alcoholic. I found the ignore button works well in those circumstances.
  • Me to- r.e the weigh in tomorrow night Mackeroo....x
    Have ruined the 'should have been' 9AF by having wine when I got home tonight.. no excuse really, just a trying day.
    Also- feel like I shouldn't really be here.... is this an alcoholic thread or 'trying to cut down' thread??

    The thread is for anyone who would like to try and give up or try and cut down.

    We are here to try and support however you want to play it :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Me to- r.e the weigh in tomorrow night Mackeroo....x
    Have ruined the 'should have been' 9AF by having wine when I got home tonight.. no excuse really, just a trying day.
    Also- feel like I shouldn't really be here.... is this an alcoholic thread or 'trying to cut down' thread??

    Hi Daisychain, you have done so well so far, better than you thought you would do, please please dont beat yourself up about tonight, focus of what you have achieved so far this year, tomorrow is a new day, new start, nothing and no one can take away your achievements this year so far. I think this is the right thread for me, im a 'trying to cut down' person, taking it a day at a time, you may feel its not for you at the moment, and thats also ok. Sending you hugs for tonight (( )) and huge luck for 2moro's weigh in.
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Ps Sparkles hope your studying/work is going ok?
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Hi Budgster

    studying is overwhelmingly busy busy busy at the moment. After a long day at uni I'm having the night off - the last one for a while - roll on the last week in Jan when I can have a few nights off before starting again! Work back on later this week :eek:

    AFD going well and on 11 now :D
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • Daisy - hugs - and sorry if that sounded a bit pompous. I'm here as I like running the challenges cos its keeps me in check during the week. I'm no angel and sometimes I'm rubbish at my own challenge but it does encourage me to try again next week. I do drink at weekends and social events and thats how I like things.

    We are here to try and keep smiling - no labels - no judging, honest :)
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • Evening all

    Took forever to get young Piglet to bed tonight. He was very excited because nanny and grandad came over so grandad could put his solar system up on his ceiling ( the planets move around the sun which lights up:)).

    So the marathon cycle is postponed till tomorrow night.(yay!!)
    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • The thread is for anyone who would like to try and give up or try and cut down.

    We are here to try and support however you want to play it :)

    Thanks all, thanks, thanks, thanks........ well- my car (and me) were in an accident this morning- not my fault- her car skidded on the ice into mine.... thankfully I (and her-the other driver) have full insurance and my suspension wil be fully fixed soon... have a hire car coming tomorrow.

    The comment earlier today made me feel like a traitor... I wrote out a long reply about how bad it had got for me- how much I was drinking- all the bad stuff- the stuff that you never tell anyone.. then I deleted it before I sent it.. I don't feel the need (or want) to explain/brag about my alcohol intake.. really don't want to own up to it all.
    Anyway- just a blip tonight- be well back on it tomorrow night !! After fat club.. MUST have lost at least 4 pounds.. Please !!??

    Night all. :)
  • Daisy - hugs - and sorry if that sounded a bit pompous. We are here to try and keep smiling - no labels - no judging, honest :)

    Not at all Pen- I find you all ace.... feel bad I've had a blip tonight....
    Hugs to all

    xx
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