The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

Lurkio

Puzzcat wrote: »

Don't know.. but i like the change of subject...!:D

I use goofbay to look at what i've sold think you can look at what you've bought? you can but try...

Now where are all the other regulars tonight..... stop hiding.....:)

I posted blind. I didn't realise

*skulks off*

Pippilongstocking

Lurkio wrote: »

any ebayers here?

how can I see my complete buying history? I bought summat aaaages ago and I want some more....

I'm lazy I go into my buyer feedback and search there - have a go you'll find it

Marru reread your writing - bit like a naughty place for dd - very good!

Pippilongstocking

Puzzcat wrote: »

Don't know.. but i like the change of subject...!:D

I use goofbay to look at what i've sold think you can look at what you've bought? you can but try...

Now where are all the other regulars tonight..... stop hiding.....:)

We're handing around tin hats and writing leaving cards by the sounds of it........................:o

Yup, sorry flippant - its my middle name, without it I'd not be able to get up everyday................


V sorry to hear folks unhappy on here, leaving or not wanting to post - take care and please don't be strangers.

:A

gien

Evening all, Af here again, just played and hour of netball so I shall feel very stiff in the morning - great fun though.

I don't know how to multi quote but I have to say that there have been some really interesting posts here and I really agree with fay in that people can only change if they change themselves. And we can only offer support in which ever way we feel we can.

I'm all touchy feely and very fuzzy because that's the way I am, others are more tough love and get on with it. I might be seen as weak and ineffectual by a tough lover, I might think they're preachy adn judgemental (not saying that I do but for example) Either way of being is legitimate and might work depending on the person you are talking.

if people are in denial, then only they can have their 'lightbulb' moment, whether it be for drinking, smoking, spending too much money etc etc. I think there are many posters here who know exactly how dangerous their drinking is(or could be, and I include myself in this category) but some are, or feel, powerless in the face of it.

What isn't generally a good idea, I think, is to alienate people so they feel they don't have a safe place to post/brain dump/confess etc. and I am afraid that this has happened several times on this thread over the years with quite a few people leaving because of it - and I wonder what happened to them?

I'm sorry that Miss P and Dundee doll feel they need to leave - the thread will be poorer without your input and I hope you reconsider.

Lurky, I think buying history disappears after a certain amount of time.
As talking dinner seems to be the thing tonight - mine was rubbish, rubbery burger and salad (homemade but over cooked )

cardboard_chewer

Lurkio wrote: »

any ebayers here?

how can I see my complete buying history? I bought summat aaaages ago and I want some more....

If it's really old I don't think you can. I wanted to find an old purchase the other day and couldn't find a way :-( although I do work in IT so don't trust a word I say

cardboard_chewer

gien wrote: »

What isn't generally a good idea, I think, is to alienate people so they feel they don't have a safe place to post/brain dump/confess etc. and I am afraid that this has happened several times on this thread over the years with quite a few people leaving because of it - and I wonder what happened to them?

hear hear - i agree

yellowmonkey

I had a yoghurt for tea and found out it was 4 days out of date _pale_

Pippilongstocking

cardboard_chewer wrote: »

If it's really old I don't think you can. I wanted to find an old purchase the other day and couldn't find a way :-( although I do work in IT so don't trust a word I say

I think you can in feedback - I've just checked mine and I'm seeing back to march 08

?

I dunno how else to do it - :cool:

Lots of great posts up there - appreciate you all, every day.

Lurkio

fayjmck wrote: »

I'm lazy I go into my buyer feedback and search there - have a go you'll find it

nope.... mebbe I didn't buy it off ebay

Lurkio

cardboard_chewer wrote: »

If it's really old I don't think you can. I wanted to find an old purchase the other day and couldn't find a way :-( although I do work in IT so don't trust a word I say

so do I - that's why I don't know :rotfl: