MSE Parents Club Part 14

SusanC_2

salesshopper wrote: »

CAFC - honestly we all worry about something - highlights for me so far are A not putting on enough weight, not doing a poo for a week and the latest since I went out the other night and she had two bottles she won't feed properly she keeps crying and not latching on properly.

All the bf out there have I given her nipple confusion? Shes hungry but the minute I put her near the nipple for a feed she screams eventually she does take it and once latched on she feeds lovely, previously she always latched straight on no problems.

Possibly she's realised it's easier to get milk from a bottle? But sometimes they seem to just be randomly funny about things.

weezl74

SusanC wrote: »

I suspect I may have worked out the cause of my hyperemesis in pregnancy: piriton. With Alice I was given piriton at 5 1/2 weeks and within a week I had lost a stone and was in hospital on a drip. I did feel nauseous before the piriton and had been sick once before having the piriton and the leaflet didn't say anything about that kind of thing so I hadno reason to suspect it. Fast forward to next pregnancy and I buy a packet of piriton to save having to go to the doctors. When I read the leaflet, it mentions that it can cause all sorts of things including a number of things I suffered from throughout my pregnancy (such as drowsiness, nausea, vomitting and lack of appetite). The leaflet is definitely different as the ones I had before said you shouldn't take it when breastfeeding because it can affect milk supply whereas this one just has the standard "Consult your Dr/pharmacist." and I am sure it didn't say about those side effects before (except for drowsiness but I knew about that already). Given the apparent correlation I didn't dare start taking them in case it was the piriton so I carried on with what I normally have. Then on Thursday, I said to OH, "Since I'm not pregnant I should try the piriton now to see what effect it has". I've only taken one a day but since Saturday morning I have been feeling really sick and have been really struggling to eat. It does mean I don't feel as worried about being ill in future pregnancies (I did wonder whether I wasn't ill in the recent one because something was wrong) but I'm feeling very :mad: that nobody (i.e. Doctors/midwife) considered that as a possible cause when really if they are knowledgable about these medicines (which they should be) it should have been an obvious potential cause and could then have been resolved.

:grouphug:

Hugs for you. How annoying and horrible

I think it's quite common for a GP consult (or any medical consultation) to swiftly assume the most obvious cause of the symptoms. (Not that I'm saying this is right, I agree with you that it's very wrong) My brother's year of medicine was the first year at his medical school taught that looking beyond the obvious is the mark of excellence, and he is 34, so it is taking a LONG time for attitudes to shift in the whole profession.

Krystaltips

Sales, she's unlikely to have nipple confusion just after a couple of bottles one night... It could be something like teeth... Or a bunged up nose... Or because it's Monday... Just bear with her and she'll sort herself out

workinmummy

CAFC, I keep meaning to ask , what size clothes does Landen wear.

I have a lovely Cardigan, its either J by Jasper Conran or John Rocher.
Its 3-6 months and its turquoise, with bright coloured stripes and is fury inside, very thick and cosy. Its like new and it's a shame for it to be sitting in the wardrobe, when another little baby can be all cosy wearing it in this yacky weather.

If you or anyone would like it give me a shout, I can send pic or post one when i get my backside in gear.

beckyandjack

is it quiet today? i can actually keep up :rotfl:

my ironing mountain now at least has a dent in it and the carpet has been vacuumed for the first time since dd was born :T

has anyone got a yummy christmas cake recipe? i want to try making my own this year and maybe a few little ones as presents if it goes well, have found loads online but can't tell if they're any good or not....

ladybirdintheuk

Front door painted, 6l of chutney in the jam kettle (I have sore hands from all the apple peeling!), washing hung out and another load on. Now time for a sit down and a hot chocolate before I crack on with the washing up. I have a tesco delivery coming some point between 12-2. I'm hoping they come nearer 2, as I need to tidy up a bit first, but what's the betting they turn up early

jillie1974 wrote: »

morning

ok...
was pe'ed off with DH. I work alternate sundays so we can all spend the day together, so when he spends from 11.30am to 6.30pm in the pub he doesnt understand why its annoyed me!! i told him that it seems like he wants to spend more time in the flucking pub than he does with me and Kian :mad: It just makes feel like crap

then when i had said earlier in the day, that my works xmas party was he was like....oh great you're working the day after so I have to look after him! it was the tone of his voice thast annoyed me. he goes out plenty on his own and yet he seems to begrudge me 1 night out with work.

MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad:

Jillie we have the same problem here. Less so now she is a bit older (and more interesting), but he has a saturday afternoon routine which involves going to the pub, and he won't change it for the world. Now she has a nap after lunch, so I call him when she wakes up and tell him it is time to come home, and that she is asking for him, which sometimes works

I've not left him in charge in the evening yet though. Mainly because most of my friends live miles away, so my evening social life either revolved around people coming to ours for the weekend (which still happens occasionally), me going to see other people (which still happens sometimes too, but I take Izzy with me, and DH sulks because he misses us, but can only express it by being a twunk), or going off to gigs in London, which is a bit far for now. (especially seeing as I wouldn't get a lie in). I need to have a girls gossiping night at the pub or something!

Sami_Bee

mORNING aLL oops caps on
I can't be bothered to read back the day or 2 I missed but will search my name just in case.

Susan great news if you now know it was the piriton but grrr at stupid doctors! My uncle who's not really my uncle IYKWIM suffers from anxiety and depression, a while ago he was feeling awful constantly and was referred to a new doctor who found that the 3 different doctors he was already seeing had prescribed medicines that shouldn't be taken together , I can't believe that all 3 of them hadn't checked and that pharmacists had been dispensing them together too!

Forum was down last night due to a massive server crash, poor MSE Webby was working very late!

I'm suffering Mummy guilt atm because Chris was up twice in the night with diawoowoo Ed had a nasty nappy at about 8pm too and I'm thinking it was either the chinese we had on Fri night or maybe that MIL baked a cake with Chris on sat and he licked the beaters and Ed tried some too She also cooked a proper carbonara but I'm sure the egg is cooked enough it that isn't it? can't think of anything else it could be

bexta

It is super quiet here today.

Ladybird and Becky, sounds like you've both had busy mornings. I've been attempting to sort the kitchen as it seems to be turning into a dumping ground.

ladybirdintheuk

I forgot to tell you about our nighttime adventures. Izzy woke in the night, and when I went in to her she was starkers! No idea how long she had been awake, but she was freezing - not sure if she had just been playing quietly for a while, or took everything off and went back to sleeep? She had wet the bed, and was yelling for me because that made her realise a nappy would be a good idea I think!

I was up about half an hour getting her changed, bed clothes changed, and getting her to calm down to go back to sleep. She still sat in bed chatting to iggle piggle for ages, which was very sweet, but at 3am I just wanted to go back to sleep myself! I'm so glad that she doesn't wake up very often any more!

beckyandjack

bexta wrote: »

It is super quiet here today.

Ladybird and Becky, sounds like you've both had busy mornings. I've been attempting to sort the kitchen as it seems to be turning into a dumping ground.

thankfully i've got most of it done as baby has decided shes feeding for the rest of the day, am hoping she unclamps in time for the school pick up later.

our dumping ground is the nursery atm as there is no permanent resident as yet, might have to find a space in the cot at some point.:o