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  • Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    What's tje 'ex stuff' Buffy?

    What a lovely offer from Sal :A you should take her up on it :D

    He got in touch via work, which I ignored, then he phoned my house, so I rang back, we had a quick akward chat, I then went to see him at work (he owns a shop). we chatted v causal, for about 45 mins

    And then he started texting, flirty,jokey, friendly,a little rude when drunk on Friday...............

    You know what I have spent years talking about that man and as much as I am sure I love him I am sick of second guessing him.

    I have to pop in the shop next week sometime to pick up fish(tank) supplies. I will see what happens.
    The ball in his court.

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Today's List

    1. guinea pigs, poor girls.
    2. fish tanks x5
    3. hoover
    4. two sets of books
    5. planning
    6. paperwork filing

    In other news I am not sure about this job that has come up, I was happy Friday, but on Saturday I went out with my friend who I would be working with, I like her but she had another girl from work with her who she is very close to and I just found the in jokes and comments a bit annoying. made me uneasy.


    any how on with the list.

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Don't let that put you off :/) you will be in on the in jokes when you get th job, see what the ex does depends if you can deal with some light hearted fun see where it leads, :-) have a happy Sunday x
    I AM A MONEY MAGNET, THEY ARE MAKING MORE MONEY FOR ME AS WE SPEAK:pMIKES MOB, DFW NERD 1071, DFW LHS 132!MIRACLES HAPPEN I'VE SEEN IT WITH MY OWN EYES. LBM 08£77240.69 Current outstanding total £36083.01 Paid so far = £41157.68
  • Don't let that put you off :/) you will be in on the in jokes when you get th job, see what the ex does depends if you can deal with some light hearted fun see where it leads, :-) have a happy Sunday x

    But that is just it, I don't want to be in on the jokes. They are just irritating! :rotfl:

    And I am quite happy to just leave things alone with the ex.

    cheers Happy xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    But that is just it, I don't want to be in on the jokes. They are just irritating! :rotfl:

    And I am quite happy to just leave things alone with the ex.

    cheers Happy xx

    I am sure you will decide what feels right for you my friend, on both accounts:A

    The ex thing in particilar:)
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Buffy - you don't have to join in with the 'in' jokes....you could just be you! You are lovely, so if the job (ignore the people) is what interests you then apply...you need to be in it to win it...

    and ignore the ex.....

    next time he txts you txt him back and ask him if there is a point to his communication.x
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Good luck buffy :-) x
    I AM A MONEY MAGNET, THEY ARE MAKING MORE MONEY FOR ME AS WE SPEAK:pMIKES MOB, DFW NERD 1071, DFW LHS 132!MIRACLES HAPPEN I'VE SEEN IT WITH MY OWN EYES. LBM 08£77240.69 Current outstanding total £36083.01 Paid so far = £41157.68
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    edited 12 September 2010 at 2:16PM
    I have been up in the loft.

    Bit scary but I started some sorting out up there and I don't think its as bad as I thought. In fact I actually had a moment of peace, I actually thought it wasn't impossible and randomly wondered about the Secret and positive thinking.

    SO

    bit of a change of tack here I grant you but I would like to ask the Universe for

    1. a tidy organised loft
    2. a new fence put up securing our new land in the back garden
    3. someone to put up the shed
    4. the shed put up in the back garden
    5. all my stuff that I want to keep put in the shed in a tidy organised fashion
    6. someone with a car to help me take my stuff to the tip, charity shop
    7. And universe can I get that job at school please?

    these things have really been holding me back and they will be solved.

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • thanks guys xxxx

    I going for the job, I was going to any way cos it really is the type of job I want and I like you say Sammy, I have to be in it to win it!

    xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • In the loft ? :eek:
    Do you know how much the thought of that scares me ? There is a huge spider issue in mine, and I am so in awe of you !
    DC.
    "Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller
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