Trying for a Baby Part Six

tinkwings

Hugs Mish x

mishkanorman

thanks guys nothing worse than a really tough day at work thankfully !

fannyanna

mishkanorman wrote: »

thanks guys nothing worse than a really tough day at work thankfully !

Oooh can I come and join your club. Think I'll be having one of those tomorrow :rotfl:

Greener_Grass

mishkanorman wrote: »

I really dont understand this thread, "24" people have left and not posted here for various reasons and as soon as the nasty comments return so do several missing posters !?!?

Maybe if you'd been here more than 5 mins you might actually give a toss about the people who have actually left and respect why they came back to say what they did.

Or maybe not.

phunkles

I love that people who left - but still continue to read and lurk - are not welcome here, yet nonttc and preg people are -
In the last few weeks weve been told to go over to the 12months plus thread, we arent welcome to post here.

I posted here last night in response to a post on here that hurt a number of peoples feelings, people who were regulars here, people who have been dismissed as nothing when they are the people who have been giving help and advice for many months - based on the research they have looked up and based on the advise of other posters who have been successful in ttc. Look back since all 24 of us left the level of advice has been no where near what it was and the thread has become a blind leading the blind, with the majority of advise coming from people who concieved within a short space of time (which is great for them) or being guided by someone that several of us have reason to believe isnt what they say they are and is infact numerous people using one username or a troll plain and simply.

I didnt come here to cause trouble or get a reaction I came back to post as I didnt want my friends to be hurt by the callous nature of some posters.

And finally take a good long look at the posts made since I posted and GG cross posted last night - all the old users who were made to feel unwelcome here have been slated completely slated yet some one who isnt yet ttc can post the nastiness that she did and get thanked!!! seriously !!! its disgusting!!!

fannyanna

I clearly missed the post that said people are not welcome on this forum.

mishkanorman

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Maybe if you'd been here more than 5 mins you might actually give a toss about the people who have actually left and respect why they came back to say what they did.

Or maybe not.

Its comments like that which ruin this thread, you know jack about me or why im here, does it make you feel better to feel superior to me ?


I respect posters such as QQ who NO MATTER WHAT dont be-little others or treat 'new' posters to this thread as less than themselves for being new

RebekahR

I would like to apologise for my harsh wording in my previous post. I am sorry.

But there really was no need to come crying because you arn't missed. It's the internet. We don't know who you are, where you have gone. Have you left? Are you on holiday? Is your internet broken? If people disappear out of thin air then yes we can't be expected to know. Not only that soooo many people post on here now. I think this thread is deffo more busy and a lot of old timers don't post as regular as newbies so I for one probably don't know most of the old timer tbh due to this.

If you really have a much better support elsewhere why are you all coming back and posting about how you are missed and stirring up. It makes no sense. If I got fed up and left and got fantastic support elsewhere I wouldn't come back. I wouldn't need to. Unless I was the stirring up type ...

must_try_harder wrote: »

Rebekah when you replied once before asking why we don't all go over to the 12+ thread I know some people got upset but I tried not to take it personally and just tried to reply with my reasons very calmly and you accepted that and everything was fine (I think)

This is correct everything from then is accepted and understood. All fine.

QQuaver wrote: »

They are missed, but we don't know exactly who went over and who is just having a time out from this thread, so we mostly assumed all who are missing went over to GGs and are having a ball:oI suppose they wouldn't like to post here from time to time to update us?

phunkles

I dont recall anyone crying on here that they werent missed, I posted for reasons Ive already stated previously. And no over time if your unfortunate enough to not concieve the first month trying these people who you just posted you dont care for will become your friends and your support network. So you might want to rethink your view on that.
And the thread is now empty compared to how it used to be before you decided to ttc oh wait your not ttc yet are you?Isnt it your husband whos unsure if he actually wants children at all? I really hope you do concieve your first month trying, im sure your child will be the luckiest in the world!
Oh so we arent allowed to keep an eye on here and lurk still???So to clear it up im not welcome on this thread is what your saying correct?!

phunkles

Im now drawing a line under this issue ______________________:cool: