Trying for a Baby Part Six

fannyanna

phunkles wrote: »

I dont recall anyone crying on here that they werent missed, I posted for reasons Ive already stated previously.

But wasn't that the purpose of the posts last night - because the people who have left this forum to join yours and GG's were upset that they hadn't been missed.

Perhaps I misinterpreted the posts last night.

phunkles wrote: »

So to clear it up im not welcome on this thread is what your saying correct?!

I'd suggest you're putting words into Rebekah's mouth here.

It's already been suggested that it has been posted that people are unwelcome on this thread. As I've already said I obviously missed this as I've not seen a post where someone has been told they're not welcome. Actually I do recall when this argument originally started people who were not yet trying to conceive were told they were not welcome - ironically by the people who had already stated that they were leaving the forum anyway.

phunkles

Can you change the misquote there please i didnt say the first quote youve used.

Thank you for editting it

fannyanna

phunkles wrote: »

Im now drawing a line under this issue ______________________:cool:

I cross posted with your line drawing post.

If you and GG are happy to draw a line under everything and stop dropping in to rake up old ground then I think that would be very much appreciated by everyone.

Of course constructive posts (such as highlighting the recent offer and other TTC related posts) are always very welcome and should you guys (or any of the others on your new forum) wish to come back and post on the thread please know that you are more than welcome.

fannyanna

phunkles wrote: »

Can you change the misquote there please i didnt say the first quote youve used.

Rolls eyes.

It's a quoting mistake. The first sentence is your quote and the other two my response.

Icey77

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Maybe if you'd been here more than 5 mins you might actually give a toss about the people who have actually left and respect why they came back to say what they did.

Or maybe not.

Us newbies, can't help being newbies y'know.

I have to admit I am getting to the point where if I am lucky enough to hook a bean I won't be saying anything on here. I will PM the people who have been nice and helpful to me but for fear of offending people who will think "I've not waited my turn" or "paid my dues to the thread" I won't post a thing.

I greatly appreciate the knowledge that I am receiving. I don't know who originally brought it to the table but I am grateful nontheless.

mishkanorman

fannyanna wrote: »

I cross posted with your line drawing post.

If you and GG are happy to draw a line under everything and stop dropping in to rake up old ground then I think that would be very much appreciated by everyone.

Of course constructive posts (such as highlighting the recent offer and other TTC related posts) are always very welcome and should you guys (or any of the others on your new forum) wish to come back and post on the thread please know that you are more than welcome.

I echo this, its pointless going over old ground and bringing your mates in for the fight - stay and join in or disagree and leave, returning to re state facts as you see them is a waste.

fannyanna

Icey77 wrote: »

Us newbies, can't help being newbies y'know.

I have to admit I am getting to the point where if I am lucky enough to hook a bean I won't be saying anything on here. I will PM the people who have been nice and helpful to me but for fear of offending people who will think "I've not waited my turn" or "paid my dues to the thread" I won't post a thing.

I greatly appreciate the knowledge that I am receiving. I don't know who originally brought it to the table but I am grateful nontheless.

No, no, no, no, NOOOOOO.

Icey if you get a BFP I want you to scream it from the roof tops. That's what this forum is all about and from what I've read those remaining on this forum want to hear some positive news every now and then.

Don't you dare feel that you can't post about your TTC efforts and the positive news that you will one day get (hopefully sometime in the near future) x x x x

roversbabe

Hi, Just started ttc for 2nd child, have a 4 yr old son & he took 8 yrs to conceive so I may be here a while! Keeping my fingers crossed that it's a bit quicker this time

fannyanna

Welcome roversbabe.

Just in case you start reading back and have second thoughts about joining the forum I just wanted to reassure you that it's not always like this. It's normally very friendly and helpful :rotfl:

Good luck on your TTC quest x

Icey77

Hi Roversbabe, welcome to the thread ... although there appears to be a bit of a tiff going on at the moment we are nice really!