Trying for a Baby Part Six

roversbabe

Thank you - I'm just going to take it as it comes. We had such an awful time of it last time (long story) and I don't want to go through that again.

RebekahR

roversbabe wrote: »

Hi, Just started ttc for 2nd child, have a 4 yr old son & he took 8 yrs to conceive so I may be here a while! Keeping my fingers crossed that it's a bit quicker this time

Hello! Good luck hope it's a better ride this time for you.
Your more experienced than me but do you chart your cycles and temp at all. If not this is a good starting place! If you know all that already ignore me lol.

roversbabe

RebekahR wrote: »

Hello! Good luck hope it's a better ride this time for you.
Your more experienced than me but do you chart your cycles and temp at all. If not this is a good starting place! If you know all that already ignore me lol.

I didn't do that and have no idea on temps & such, will look into that, thanks - I'm pretty clued up on my cycle and am quite regular. We do both have fertility issues though, he has a low sperm count and I don't ovulate every month. Apologies if this is TMI :eek:

fannyanna

roversbabe wrote: »

Apologies if this is TMI :eek:

Haha you think that's TMI just you wait :rotfl:

I'm joking. It helps to talk about all the ins and outs of things. I for one have learnt so much just from reading other peoples posts.

calamityclare

BB1984 wrote: »

CalamityClare - I'm so sorry about your loss I was so pleased for you that you got your BFP and I hope that you don't have to wait too long for another.

BB x

Really?? Funny ive looked back and you didnt even acknowledge my bfp, you did howevere do a long post bullet pointing your opinions over the thread drama that peed on my parade

I am also disgusted that nearly everyone has jumped on the bandwagon of slating some of us that left for posting comments over here but not one of you appears to be bothered by what rebekah!

RebekahR

roversbabe wrote: »

I didn't do that and have no idea on temps & such, will look into that, thanks - I'm pretty clued up on my cycle and am quite regular. We do both have fertility issues though, he has a low sperm count and I don't ovulate every month. Apologies if this is TMI :eek:

I am like a stuck record with this. But I cannot recommend this book enough.
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Fertility-Awareness-Natural-Family-Planning/dp/0715304240/ref=sr_1_13?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1307311724&sr=1-13
It might help you to temp and then when you do ovulate you will know roughly what your usual days are you ov on. I started in Janaryish and I have learnt that I ovulate normally on day 13 but between 12-14.
This gives me good headway for knowing when to get rumpy pumpying. For hubbys sperm count as has been said here today already by another poster - apologies forget who - rumpy pumpy every other day is best. Gives him enough time to build us his army of soldiers :rotfl:

fannyanna

calamityclare wrote: »

Really?? Funny ive looked back and you didnt even acknowledge my bfp, you did howevere do a long post bullet pointing your opinions over the thread drama that peed on my parade

I am also disgusted that nearly everyone has jumped on the bandwagon of slating some of us that left for posting comments over here but not one of you appears to be bothered by what rebekah!

Right this just takes the biscuit.

Now even someone expressing regret and offering sympathy is being frowned upon.

Clare what on earth do you want from people. You moan when people don't say anything and you moan when someone does.

To everyone else on this forum - I really do apologise for blowing up and continuing with this debacle. I know this is not what you come here for.

I'm just getting really fed up now of people posting just to have a go at everyone.

calamityclare

fannyanna wrote: »

Right this just takes the biscuit.

Now even someone expressing regret and offering sympathy is being frowned upon.

Clare what on earth do you want from people. You moan when people don't say anything and you moan when someone does.

To everyone else on this forum - I really do apologise for blowing up and continuing with this debacle. I know this is not what you come here for.

I'm just getting really fed up now of people posting just to have a go at everyone.

I dont want anything from anyone, i was merely pointing out the phoney BS that comes out of peoples gobs, and that obviously some people can post nastyness with a pat on the back!

fannyanna

calamityclare wrote: »

I dont want anything from anyone, i was merely pointing out the phoney BS that comes out of peoples gobs, and that obviously some people can post nastyness with a pat on the back!

This does not translate well on a forum and I am not saying this in a horrible way but it's going to look that way (but it's really not)...

Why are you posting here?

As I said that is meant in a nice way - even though I appreciate it probably doesn't look that way.

I'm just confused. You seem hurt if you don't get a response and hurt if you do get a response. I just wonder why you would continue to post here if it caused you distress.

And I know I'm going to get slated but I once again want to try and stress that I'm not being nasty.

mishkanorman

Edited as it really wasnt lady like ! :mad::mad: