MSE Pregnancy Club 19

emsywoo123

sammy you bolded me so early in the day :eek: :eek:

Off for a bath now, as midwife on her way to do yet ANOTHER sweep

Sammy_Girl

Good Morning Ladies.

Dusty - (((Hugs))). I think the time between the 12 week and 20 week scan is a bit of a no mans land as you can't really see or feel anything happening. The MS disappears and it can feel very un-pregnant like. Your fears are perfectly rational. Try not to get too stressed about it and call your MW to see if you can pop in to check the heartbeat. It will all be ok - I know it will be.

Legs - so nice to hear from you and Molly. I hope she's ok. I can't wait to read the birth story! Piccies would be lovely when you're ready

Plymouth - you're officially top of the list now Sending loads of labour vibes your way

Emsy - you're official overdue!!!! Load of vibes your way too!

Ticklepenny - you're allowed a self indulgant rant - don't worry. It sounds like you have a very supportive hubby - so I wouldn't worry too much. You can make it up to him soon enough. (((Hugs)))

GFH - I hope the scan went well and your bubs is dancing away. I hate it when you leave us in suspenders like this! Did you find out the flavour?


So for me, after relaxing last night and no more bleeding - I've started bleeding again this morning TMI - I've put on white knickers and just been to the loo and not long had a shower so its kind of watery? When I got in last night I insisted DH do a knicker check for me for himt o see - don't think he was impressed - pretty grossed out really. I have no shame! Anyway, I think if it gets any worse I'm going to take myself off to the hospital. But I really hope I don't have to.

gratefulforhelp_2

Team Yellow for GFH please!!

Scan went well, trainee sonographer thought it was a boy, but supervising sonographer said cord was between legs! So no definitive answer.

Whatever, baby will have pink and orange buggy as I'm not buying a new one. Money spent so far on baby £0.00.

ticklepenny_2

Sammy ((Hugs)) to be honest I would take myself off to the hospital just for peice of mind, mentioning the aches aswell. Sending virtual cup of tea and slice of cake

DueMarch11

My question mark is still black

gratefulforhelp_2

slm6002 wrote: »

help i am going in to be induced at 6 tonight and i am scared! Waters broke last night at 6 ish and had it confirmed at the hospital this afternoon. Its all a little fast - yes i know i have had 39 weeks to get prepared but never been induced before

It will all be fine. I quite liked induction, in the sense that the birth tends to be over quickly.

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Chicky how did you find that shirt/nightie.....love it and want it!

ladylegs wrote: »

Only got home from hospital 4 today with my Molly Bean:) Have read back to see the other boldies' babies but can't see them!!!?
Very sore still but happy to finally meet our baby girl and relieved to be home despite pain. I'm so in love:)
Birth story is definitely a classic horror. Will have to sit and think about how to write it without scaring any new mummies.;) I've been fine about the experience though - tough cookie and the end result is what really matters after all.
Will try to post a piccie tomorrow and hope Fuz and co get their announcements out there too. Thinking of you all about to drop xxxx

Little one is demanding a feed. My cue to go.

Hope all okay - will continue to lurk and check in on you all x

And thank you whole-heartedly for the congratulations. :A

LL and Molly xx

Brilliant :T

emsy three sweeps?? That baby is comfy in there! eta meant to say I love the nightie too!!

sammy I'm sorry I missed your worrying time. I would def go to hosp, or you'll only worry yourself sick. Hugs.

dusty honey, go and see your GP and get them to give you the PND questionnaire. You can get AND too, I don't want you to end up in a state when you don't need to. Hugs for you too.

dustystar02

Rockinbikergal wrote: »

See this is why I haven't been on.....going back to lurking (((hugs))) to all especially twoflowers and dusty I;ll be your gloom partner dusty lol

Sounds good to me, let's moan together. ((HUGS)) to you though, don't feel like you can't post. all I ever do is post and moan, I'm surprised I haven't been told to leave already

chickywiggle wrote: »

I was SOO depressed by Wednesday that I was sat on the bathroom floor wishing the baby would just vanish so I didn't have to go through the pain any longer.
I HATE my body with a passion as I look like one huge scab.

You REALLY need to get this sorted. It is no good feeling this way at all. I cannot imagine what you are going through but I know when I had severe excezma I was in tears so often. Eumovate cream was my saviour, plus steriods. Although I'm not sure how they relate to being PG - deffo get back to the drs and DO NOT LEAVE til you have a satisfied answer.

dustystar02

Thanks for the advice guys.

I have rang the MW this morning but she is in clinic so the receptionist is asking her to ring me back this morning and hopefully she can squeeze me in tomorrow afternoon. I just need the reassurance that everything is ok. I am so convinced something is going to go wrong.

GFH - congrats on Team Yellow, I think I could easily fall into PND but I do genuinely believe that my current angst is down to not feeling the movements and worrying so much, I hope once I start to feel bubs and get further down the line I will become more excited and happy. I just feel so detached from everything at the mo, OH, friends and bubs - as I keep saying, everything has changed and uyet nothing has changed.

If I continue to feel like this after the 20 wk scan then I'll deffo get in the docs but for now I think just hearing the hearbeat will give me some peace today.

Thanks for your concern ladies, sorry for being such a drama queen, where would I be without you lot ...xxx

dustystar02

Sammy - how are you today hun? have you gone into work?

**TMI** I've got really bad discharge this morning, feels very wet down there, and it smells quite a bit (the shame). Do you think cos we DTD on sunday night this is his remains as it were?
God, I can't believe I'm discussing this on the bl00dy internet..!

gratefulforhelp_2

dusty you are not being a drama queen, it is upsetting and scary when you are new to being pregnancy and you feel out of control of your body.

If you feel any better, I *think* I feel movements, but they are not clear, and I'm 21 weeks on Thurs. The scan showed loads of movement, though, they couldn't catch the little blighter!