MSE Pregnancy Club 19

Teenie_D

Firstly ((hugs)) dusty. My DH stopped smoking after DD was born apart from the odd one when he was drinking. I started having suspicions about him smoking again a few months ago but he kept denying it. Eventually he did admit that he had been having the occasional one as at the time he was in his old job and it was stressing him out.
I completely blew up at him and felt so hurt, not that he was smoking but the fact he had lied to me time after time about it. Even now I ask if he has been smoking but he denies it and gets very defensive but sorry, he has lied to me about it once before.......

I think I would be peed off at your DH too, not necessarily for the smoking but to treat you like that in front of others. I'm sure you'll be speaking soon but make him grovel for a while

Nic good news about the house (I think?), at least you'll be settled for Xmas. It would be great if you could use the community hospital but a homebirth would be good. I would quite have liked a home birth but DH is just totally against it, I don't really mind as our maternity unit in the hospital is pretty good. I wouldn't be keen on going to ARI either, they are fab for everything else but I've not heard good reports on maternity side of things.

Wish they would leave the clocks alone DD was up at 5am this morning despite us putting her to bed an hour later, she is going to be shattered and grumpy later.....a bit like her mother lol!

LilacPixie

Nic - thats a fair jaunt from huntly to Aberdeen when in labour. It's about 30 miles isn't it?? My OH is in balmedie as I type then I think it's old meldrum and insch then back home to dundee. Moving is a pain in the !!!, our move date is 10th December so basically first job will be to put up a christmas tree.

Sorry ladies but you lot in bold have to stay fat, I don't like the idea of moving up the list. Sounds weird but when i joned here is was like 14 weeks and birth was an age away but now i'm pretty much 25 weeks and have far too much to do before things get a moving so the list needs to be frozen with me middle of the road.

*BigBird*

Oo, I think I might have just had a show! Fingers crossed something will happen soon.

Sounds good about the house Nic. I can see why you'd have mixed feelings as it's hard to move away from family, bit at least you'll be with your OH and have your own little family all together.

I hope your OH is suitably apologetic this morning, Dusty. With a bit of luck, after such an outburst in front of friends and family, someone's given him a good talking to and made him realise what an idiot he's being.

Teenie_D

Keeping fingers crossed for you bigbird x

plymouthscubagirl

Bigbird - about time one of us started progressing!! I'm actually ok with being in bold. Don't really want it to come out until at least Thursday at the earliest! We'll see though........

dustystar02

Thanks for the ((HUGS)) guys. Things are a lot different this morning.

I am extremely upset this morning and incredibly angry, he hasn't been in touch but I think he is keeping distance allowing me time to calm down, I am totally fine with that, I dont plan on going home tonight either (he works nights so won't realise til the morning when he gets home anyway) if he doesn't then get in touch then things are seriously wrong.
I have resigned myself to this is how our relationship is, he says things in anger, I get upset, I forgive him, we carry on then it all happens again.

Maybe it is just my anger speaking but right now I honestly do not mind if I never hear from him again
The way I'm feeling right now, I'm more upset about how I would manage financially bringing this baby up on my own rather than the end of our relationship.

ladylegs

Hi girls. Sorry still clogging up the list. Blame baby!

*BigBird* wrote: »

Oo, I think I might have just had a show! Fingers crossed something will happen soon.

BB Excellent news :j:j Something is happening, finally:j:j

Plymouth Hello fellow bold lady. Not much going on here either.
TMI: my waters might be trickling out slowly - trying to monitor it but it's not easy to tell:o. Had some back ache and cramps but nothing "regular". I just hope I know when it is time!!!

Emsy and Fuzz haven't been on, have they? Hmmmm!!! Is it time???:)

GOOD LUCK TO ALL BOLDED LADIES X


Dusty <hugs> Doesn't sound like fun. Hope you resolve things with your partner. You and baby don't need this stress.

*Back to lurkdom and knicker-watch*

emsywoo123

Dusty huge hugs, what a carpy thing to happen, especially right now

Cannot remember anything about anything at the minute, my apologies, but I am still here with no sign that anything is occuring

Oh and BB a show, that is the most action we have had on here for ages

Lady good luck pant watching :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Sammy_Girl

Good Morning Ladies

Legs - ooh, a bit of tickling sounds promising! Are you wearing a pantyliner as that might help the MW to identify if it's your waters? I was also going to say that you could have a good ol sniff - but that's far too TMI for this time of the day :rotfl: Fingers crossed for you x

Bigbird - fingers crossed for you too. I hope that it is a show and things are progressing Good luck x

Dusty - (((Hugs))). Sorry you're OH is being a pr!ck I don't really have a practical advice, just that I know what a PITA OHs can be at times, but they don't always understand us pg ladies being in a hormonal state 99% of the time. I hope you resolve things.

Nic - Congrats on the new house :j At least you'll all be together by Christmas. Remember, home is where the heart is :smileyhea


Me, I'm feeling rubbish. I have picked up another cold. Again. And all I can take is paracetamol and honey and lemon, which doesn't seem to be working I normally have the flu shot every year due to my asthma, but decided against it this year - and not really sure if that's a good idea or not as I don't have the greatest immune system and I seem to attract bugs Ah, woe is me.

Hope we have some movement from our bold ladies today :j:j:j

S xx

ladylegs

Ooh Emsy, HELLO!

Didn't you mention the trickle?:o

Sammy I love the typo...tickling does sound promising.:rotfl::rotfl:
I'd sniff it but it is gone today! It's horribly teasing in this last week - you think every little thing is the start..constant symptom-spotting. It's driving me mad.:p
I had a maternity towel on and it soaked maybe 40% but not sure what with - bouncing on the ball could have made my bladder buckle!