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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread Part 8!

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  • Marru wrote: »
    Hello,

    Just a quick update that I am back on track again, bells have gone quiet. Thank goodness for that. So day 3 in the challenge please.

    Lot on the plate at the moment so sorry only reading bits here and there. Hope all is well with all. Shaggy - lovely to have you back, your pictures always cheer me up :j

    ETA: Fay - excellent taste in drink, my present favourite

    Marru did you get my PM - haven't got an email from you yet (no pressure!)

    I decided to treat myself! Elderflower cordial is not very MSE

    But it beats a bottle of vino for value :D
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    Fay - working on it, thank you so much!

    Oh I do love moneysaving. I got a brand new phone yesterday (free of charge) while my monthly bill goes down by £15.- :money: Off to tackle my todo list...
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • newroadahead
    newroadahead Posts: 1,346 Forumite
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    Hi All

    Hope we are all doing well. Just popping in to say 12 AFD and still on track for the challenge. Have to admit the bells were clanging earlier but I know I would be useless at work tomorrow even after one drink.

    Have finaaly pulled my head out of the sand tonight and called Payplan (Im currently with a paying DMP CO.) (Please dont all shout at me at once).
    Have made shopping list ready for Friday (pay day) and going to do meal plans tomorrow for the next month.

    Im also knitting for my friends little boy for Xmas so all busy.

    Anyway take care all, thinking of everyone :A:)

    Catch up soon

    love


    NRA xxx
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  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    maman wrote: »
    Sorry to hear you're still feeling rough Budgie. Yes, you are on 8 because same as me:D At least we don't have fuzzy head from booze.

    Thanks Maman :) I had trouble with my mathametics last night, but I am pleased to say: I am now on 9 af days please DB :) hugs to you both (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Lurkio wrote: »
    :whistle: :whistle: ;) :wave:

    Hello matey :D You have not said much since your return? Hope you and your lovely family are all ok? I have missed you, you know ;) Tis nice to have you back, but a few words would be even nicer ;) Hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    So Budgie is feeling a little better, I am still not well but I do feel like I am picking up. I am in quarantine at work :( Basically when I was ill back in June I carried on working but then I passed it onto a friend I work with and she had to have a week off :o So I am now upstairs in an office all alone ...........................

    Still I only have tomorrow to do then I shall be off until Monday :)

    I am planning all sorts of batch cooking etc, I have even had a nosey at frugal living :cool:

    I get paid at the end of the month and I am going to keep my grocery budget in order. I shall even be preparing for winter. I am not worrying over Christmas, because I started that way back in the year :p

    So feeling ok here af wise. Hope everyone else is ok too?

    So love n hugs guys, oh and Ntc my Ds is just fine thankyou, he has just been promoted again :) I am officially the poor relation now :o (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Oh and thankyou for posting your story GLW and well done on all that you have achieved. (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Oh and one more thing ...................365 hugs and I know how hard it is when your children are off doing their own thing, but make the most of this time and do somethings for yourself, even if its just a long bath with candles and a book, (without the constant calls for: "whats for tea" where is my top, etc) ;) He will soon be back with his dirty washing :eek: (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Just ask our lovely Fay ;) Btw Fay well done on the Elderflower cordial, I think there is a link somewhere on oldstyle for making your own? Or was that another site I was mooching on???? Anyways hugs to you (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Oh and really this is the last one, Marru, you seem to be more perkier sweetheart, so I hope this black dog has left you now? Big hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxx Jo it was nice to see you, and glad the weather is lovely for you all :) (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ra as ever hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    It be bedtime for Budgie now :D
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    Thanks Budgie - a really nice thing happened yesterday with a real black dog. I had just had a not so nice visit at the council (it seems that it is for me to prove that they are reducing too much of "overpayment" from me) and was really tired and peed off. So walked through the park and met this dog who were with a couple that were sitting on the bench. I "sent a message" of hello to the dog and she came to me, so I got down and we had nice cuddle and kiss. The owner was looking at me and said that I must be a real dog lover and I just said that it was just what I needed and thanked her. Thank goodness for these wonderful beings that are put into our path to bring us so much joy and in my case healing. Off to bed now...
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Oh and just one more thing :D

    Sos/Pricey its A level results tomorrow, well I am sure you know this already, just wanted to say: Good Luck to your DD I hope she gets the grades that she needs?

    I am sure she will :)

    I still remember the stress and feeling sick until my Ds rang me. on his results day.

    Don't think I was much use at work that day ;)

    So good luck to her and everyone who will get their results tomorrow.

    I hope she will be :j

    Lots of love
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    ETA Marru that is so nice and you have such an affinity with animals, it really does seem your path lies in this field. Big hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,797 Forumite
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    Another day sorted (hope it's the same for all of you).

    9AF please DB

    'night all. Sleep well.;)
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    edited 19 August 2010 at 7:35AM
    Morning all,

    Woken up early again today, I'm nervous as DD1 is getting her A Level results later then that's it, she's free to do whatever she wants with her life :eek:

    How can I be old enough to have a child that has left school!!!?

    Hope everyone's okay?

    Fletch, if you're still reading, I think I need that lunchbox challenge again, my spends are getting seriously out of hand!!

    DB, I have no idea what my total is at the moment, but could you add 2 more on to it please. Thanks.

    Right, think I might have a bath then go and buy a paper and sit outside with a coffee whilst the sun is still shining and wait for this lazy lot to get up. Hope they hurry up I'm hungry and want my grapefruit, porridge and full English, I'm gonna be the size of a house when I leave this place!

    Speak to you all later :wave:

    XxxX
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning All :hello:

    A stressful day with a family member yesterday who has got herself into a massive amount of debt but is yet to have a light bulb moment..... but I stayed firm and am on 4 AFDs.

    happyThursday.gif

    Shaggy
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Jo - keeping everything crossed for your daughter fingerscrossed-fingers-crossed-goodluck-smiley-emoticon-000674-large.gif Enjoy the rest of your holiday!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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