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  • *max*
    *max* Posts: 3,208 Forumite
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    Sorry!........ :o
  • DON79
    DON79 Posts: 3,842 Forumite
    I hope it does all work out for the best for you for this weekend and you have a lovely time away. :)
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  • Pollycat
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    Vodooelephant
    It sounds like things are going well for you, I hope you have a great weekend away.

    From some of your posts on the other thread your relationship with your OH is not that great (the mention of him checking CSA payments really shocked me) and maybe after you come back from the Isle of Wight you could both sit down and talk about things.
    Your OH's intentions to work on his feelings towards the boys is a great start but don't fall into the trap of sweeping things under the carpet.

    Best wishes
  • nanto3girls
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    Hope you have a lovely weekend.Wishing you all the best.xx
  • piglet74
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    *max* wrote: »
    I really loathe being the devil's advocate here (and I apologise in advance!), but are you sure YOU are going? I'm naturally suspicious! He may have given his landline number by mistake (yes, some people really are that stupid...lol).

    Good news about him acknowledging he needs to do something about his relationship with your boys.


    I hope we are wrong, but it was the first thing i thought too....im also naturally suspicious!!!

    hope you are going, and hope u have a good time!!
  • HannahIOW
    HannahIOW Posts: 2,958 Forumite
    That's what I thought too. Let me know if you need a spy :D (only joking!!)
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  • Pollycat
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    *Max*, piglet & HannahIOW,
    If vodooelephant's OH intended taking someone other than his wife to the Isle of wight, do you really think he'd give them the landline number instead of his mobile?
    As for the money....... I had a call this morning from a hotel on isle of wight (somewhere i always wanted to go but never got round to it..) confirming reservation and ferry times for this weekend :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D.

    I hope you have a fab time and that everything works out for you.
  • HannahIOW
    HannahIOW Posts: 2,958 Forumite
    In all serious no, I don't think he would. Have a lovely time on the IOW voodoo :)
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  • joanne_d_3
    joanne_d_3 Posts: 715 Forumite
    A happy ending x
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    best of luck sweetheart x
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
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