Ladies & Gentlemen, please fasten your seatbelts ...

benbenandme

Thankyou APP, please don't relurk, keep posting!
Was almost amusing at the police station explaining my bank statements and answering questions about my financial situation and my lack of debts as a single parent on a part-time wage, nearly sent them here to meet you all :rotfl:

benbenandme

Thankyou Elliemarie and Sarahneedle, consensus seems to be that the note is okay so will get it sent in the morning. Have kept a copy of it on the computer too in case solicitor wants to see any communications

Keeping_Motivated

benbenandme wrote: »

Hopefully this will help explain why I have been unfocused recently on my weight and my £10 a day challenge; basically the situation involves my ex, someone elses bank account and him paying my child maintenance .... sure you can all figure whats happened :mad:

I can't figure it out but it sounds :eek: but I did wonder if you could use this diary and your past diaries to prove your financial situation if need be?

benbenandme

Yep, another dear friend on here has suggested that may be useful ... imagine the police trawling through my dull ramblings about my weight and cutie teachers while they search for evidence :rotfl: :rotfl:

benbenandme

KM, he works in a bank :eek:

EllieMarie

benbenandme wrote: »

KM, he works in a bank :eek:

Does that mean he could loose his job Beneben?

benbenandme

Thats probably the minimum that could happen Elliemarie We're talking a 5 figure sum in total (not into my account, most went into his own :eek:), I'm implicted because he paid 3 lots of maintnenace to me from it :mad: :mad: :mad:

Ellidee

Oh benben can't imagine how horrible and stressful all this must be for you -sending loads of postive and 'stay strong' vibes. Hugs too xxxx

Keeping_Motivated

benbenandme wrote: »

Thats probably the minimum that could happen Elliemarie We're talking a 5 figure sum in total (not into my account, most went into his own :eek:), I'm implicted because he paid 3 lots of maintnenace to me from it :mad: :mad: :mad:

I know you already know it but you are WELL rid of that !!!!!!!! His new girlfriend is one lucky girl

EllieMarie

benbenandme wrote: »

Thats probably the minimum that could happen Elliemarie We're talking a 5 figure sum in total (not into my account, most went into his own :eek:), I'm implicted because he paid 3 lots of maintnenace to me from it :mad: :mad: :mad:

OMG:eek:. I guess this is why you said you might have to provide for DS on you own. What ever possessed him? No wonder you've been feeling bad:o.