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I was wrong, how do I make it up? He didnt Lie!

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  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
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    Seriously, I needed a reality check, which is why I have not been offended from anyones posts on here as they have all been a perspective I can understand.

    So thank you for posting that, I appreciate it and unfortunately I know these issues need sorting as I am pushing him away with every time I hurt him :(

    To be frank, I think it's probably time you stopped being a Little Madam.
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  • Blackpool_Saver
    Blackpool_Saver Posts: 6,599 Forumite
    Errata wrote: »
    To be frank, I think it's probably time you stopped being a Little Madam.


    and it's time he stopped sulking.

    How about counselling at Relate?
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Littlemadam83
    Littlemadam83 Posts: 785 Forumite
    He's late back again, has anyone got any advice? I really dont think he'll come back now this has never happened before
  • Blackpool_Saver
    Blackpool_Saver Posts: 6,599 Forumite
    He's late back again, has anyone got any advice? I really dont think he'll come back now this has never happened before


    and people on here really think this ALL your fault....

    I am sorry, all you can do now is wait, don't chase/call/text or anything.

    I hate childish behaviour like this, suppose next time something has happened to him, you might think , oh he is just having another sulk.............
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Littlemadam83
    Littlemadam83 Posts: 785 Forumite
    Thanks Blackppool Saver, I am sitting here crying, why cant he just calm down?

    Ok, I will refrain from contact, really didnt think we'd be splitting after we just got married xxxx
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    and it's time he stopped sulking.


    You're really not helping. He's dealing with it in his own way. Perhaps with the way he's been let down by LM's mis-trust he feels it's better to stay away rather than it turning into a full scale slanging match.

    LM, all you can do is let him come around in his own time, just be there for him when he gets back. Nobody likes a sulker, but it's better than him saying something he'll regret later. XXXX
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • euronorris
    euronorris Posts: 12,247 Forumite
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    Although, how late is he? Can't be that late. Could be stuck in traffic or having issues with public transport etc.

    But I agree, don't text or call him.
    February wins: Theatre tickets
  • mrsg26
    mrsg26 Posts: 228 Forumite
    Thanks Blackppool Saver, I am sitting here crying, why cant he just calm down?

    Ok, I will refrain from contact, really didnt think we'd be splitting after we just got married xxxx

    its only 6.30pm - not the next morning - he needs time to calm down and you are jumping to all sorts of crazy conclusions - just relax.
  • Littlemadam83
    Littlemadam83 Posts: 785 Forumite
    he's back

    and he is normally home at 6.

    Right wish me luck and I will keep calm - PROMISE xxxxx
  • Blackpool_Saver
    Blackpool_Saver Posts: 6,599 Forumite
    Good luck kid xxxxx
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

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