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  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    I would echo the previous posts. Go cautiously with a thread on termination. Some people have very strong ideas for and against it. Try not to take everything that's posted too much to heart.

    It sounds like it's not been an easy decision for you. Remember that you can change your mind at any time, and you can talk through your worries and anxieties. Always be comfortable with the decision you came to, never let anyone make you regret it. It's your choice, and you must have very good reasons for it. Some women have terminations and agonise over them for years. Don't let that be you. I'm afraid I can't advise on how to do that, I just know that you can't let yourself do it. I hope that all makes sense.

    I wish you well with this.
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    edited 5 July 2010 at 2:33PM
    I fully support your decision. I hope everything goes smoothly and you get the support you need.
  • Beki
    Beki Posts: 917 Forumite
    (((((big hugs))))) xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    edited 5 July 2010 at 2:39PM
    edited as no-longer relevant
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • Sequeena
    Sequeena Posts: 4,728 Forumite
    Wow, I feel really sad for you :( I had an mc last year and have not been able to fall pregnant since but I'm not going to judge you. I'm not in your situation so I've no right to pass judgement.

    Good luck xxx
    Wife and mother :j
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  • pinknfluffy0
    pinknfluffy0 Posts: 388 Forumite
    Big hugs. I have no idea why you have made this choice but I hope it works out well.

    Be gental on your self and give your self time to heal physically and emotionally.
  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    how do we tag spam? Mikebailey is clearly not giving a useful opinion for this thread :p
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    hngrymummy wrote: »
    Person_one, that's exactly the kind of comment that will get people posting their strong opinions, which is not what the OP wants. Some people are pro-choice, some are pro-life. Neither group are nutters, they just have different opnions.

    I've editied it. Although I would say that being anti abortion for yourself is fine, but harrassing or bullying others takes you into nutter territory.
  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    Thanks person_one. :o I was worried that people would jump on feet first expressing their strong opinions in retaliation without considering the real nature of the thread. I've seen other threads hijacked in this way and it serves no use to the OP.
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • dreambirdie
    dreambirdie Posts: 441 Forumite
    icey77 altough i dont really agree with abortion i have the utmost respect for anyone making that decsion. i can only imagine how hard it would be. i have no practical advice, just wanted to wish u all the best really. x
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