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MSE Parents Club Part 13

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  • Celebrity Masterchef is making me hungry :D.

    Caz we also have a backpack carrier thing and Henry is a lump. I've never actually carried him in it but apparently it's not too bad.

    Susan- I think that sounds like a good, sensible plan and don't see it as antagonistic. I guess what you put in the emergency part depends on how you feel. Do you need an emergency part or would it be better just to brief your doula on your feelings in different emergency situations?
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • always29
    always29 Posts: 477 Forumite
    Can't remember if I said earlier - have a lovely meet in Birmingham ladies and babies!
  • Have a lovely time tomorrow :)
    ;) Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky' ;)
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    Susan - preference for a spinal or a GA in case of an emergency c-section, I'd also sound them out about their feelings on natural caesarean, in a just in case kind of way - if I ever manage number 2 it would be one of my first questions as I felt so detached from Katie for quite a while. If a caesaren is necessary ask about follow up pain relief morphine was wonderful but it meant I lost Katies first 24 hours, I would have preferred something else.
    Thanks for that. Any ideas where one would find information about post op pain relief options? I'd forgotten about natural caesareans although I guess they could only apply if I had to have a planned CS.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • Aww I feel bad now :( I'm sorry. If there's another big meet I will make sure I make that one.

    Susan your birth plan sounds great. I'm not sure what to write about emergencies as like you say what happens will very much depend on what is happening IYSWIM.

    :(SORRY - I truly didn't mean to make you sad - one sad person is enough for this thread :rotfl:(I am talking about me btw...)

    Plus - there seems to be a mini meet in West Wales next month ;)
    The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents ;):o:D
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    EA, your temps look very yo-yo to me...is there something which could be interfering with them? Also maybe I was just different, but my CM would vary at least somewhat, whereas you've marked 'clear' for every single day. :o
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  • Evansangel
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    aless02 wrote: »
    EA, your temps look very yo-yo to me...is there something which could be interfering with them? Also maybe I was just different, but my CM would vary at least somewhat, whereas you've marked 'clear' for every single day. :o

    I thought the C was for 'creamy'? Thats what it is on mobile Fertility Friend :o

    It does vary throughout the day, but i would say 70% of the time its creamy, so i mark it down as that.

    Not to sure if anything is interfering with them, i take it between 7am-7:20am every day, i always have 3 hours sleep beforehand and my thermometre is under the pillow so i dont have to move much.
  • :(SORRY - I truly didn't mean to make you sad - one sad person is enough for this thread :rotfl:(I am talking about me btw...)

    Plus - there seems to be a mini meet in West Wales next month ;)

    :rotfl:I think we should all turn up at that one just to look at the look on Glam's OH's face :rotfl:.


    I'm interested in a natural caesarian if I go for an elective next time.

    Susan- I had morphine and diclofenac after my c-section and I think I was pretty lucid. I guess it depends on the individual's reaction to the drugs (and I guess the dose).
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    Sorry I meant creamy not clear! been too long since I used FF, can you tell? :P
    top 2013 wins: iPad, £50 dental care, £50 sportswear, £50 Nectar GC, £300 B&Q GC; jewellery, Bumbo, 12xPringles, 2xDiesel EDT, £25 Morrisons, £50 Loch Fyne

    would like to win a holiday, please!!
    :xmassmile Mummy to Finn - 12/09; Micah - 08/12! :j
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    Evansangel wrote: »
    Susan, i think i may of missed something. Are you pregnant?

    All i remember is you saying your temps are still raised.

    Which reminds me, does my chart look a little odd to you? link
    It's too early to know for sure but I have been suspiciously nauseous for the last three days (by this point with Alice I'd already actually been sick and wasn't getting much done because of how ill I felt). I've been managing to keep the nausea at bay so far by eating little and often.

    My temperature is never as consistent as the early part of yours but doesn't usually fluctuate up and down quite as much as the later part of yours is. Has your sleep been different to usual (e.g. late/early nights/mornings) as that could affect it. I wouldn't say it looks wildly strange but I've only got my own to compare it with.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
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