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MSE Parents Club Part 13
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ManOnTheMoon wrote: »Not getting impatient, but when does the midwife usually get in touch after going to the GP? It's only been 5 days, but Lucy will be 6 weeks this week and the GP said week 8 or 9 will be the first midwife appointment. With my girls, the GP asked us to make an appointment then and there, but didn't this time.Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
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I had to spend a hot sweaty 24 hours in bed after having Katie, I was too sore after my section to wash my hair so I just rinsed it through, I didn't want to risk making thing sting either with the soap running over the wound.Proud to be dealing with my debts
DD Katie born April 2007!
3 years 9 months and proud of it
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ManOnTheMoon wrote: »In what way do you feel SM gets a hard time? (also interested to read SM's thoughts on that) I'm not around for periods at a time. She's one of those who has been most friendly towards me.ManOnTheMoon wrote: »Everyone is liked and disliked by people - I could name you half a dozen who aren't my biggest fans on here, but there are numerous others who will put up with me and offer me good advice, all of which is greatly received.Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
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MOTM - I had to ring and book my own MW appointment at 8 weeks. My best friend lives 30 miles away under a different council and they had the system where the midwife rings them. She saw the midwife at 11 weeks, and only received her 12 week scan date the week before. I got mine before my booking in appointment!Mummy to Thomas born April 27th 2010 8lb 5oz0
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Some have explained, and Red thank-you, and yes I hope some do feel bad as I know about the 'pm' messaging that goes on and am very umcomfortable with it. The majority of people are lovely and need not feel bad at all but this thread has got clicky and it's made worse by some, they can feel as bad as they like but they won't. The nasty remarks that get messaged behind the scenes are not nice and quite frankly I'm way too old for it.
It is with tears that I say my goodbyes, you've been amazing and got me through some terrible times, and some very happy ones. SM gets a hard time on here and is ignored by many, I don't always agree with her choices but have always talked to her about it. I'm absolutely sure others don't agree with mine but why should they, they're mine to make. I may post occasionally but don't think it fair to just come on and not keep up to date with others. I have read this thread almost every day for abouth 18mths now so will miss some of you very much. Too upset to type now...
It is posts such as this that make me glad i am not a regular poster on this thread , i have posted occasionally and when i have posted the only response i have had is from someone who i spoke to on another thread sometime ago, who incidentally also does not post regularly on this thread. I would say there are "groups" of people on this thread who tend to only reply to each other and for me that makes it difficult when you are a new poster on the thread to feel "included" .
This meet that was arranged was done as i see it as very spur of the moment literally a "right i have decided we will have a meet in birmingham its in the middle of everyone " , clearly its not in the middle of everyone , the majority of people going live fairly close to birmingham apart from a few who are travelling from further away . IMO if people get a hard time on here then it is only because of what they post , why post every detail of your life if you are not prepared for the responses you may get ? :undecided
I dont see why everyone should give a reason for not going to the meet , if you dont want to go then why give a reason ? It may of been a better idea to do what has happened on other areas of the forum and start up a post specifically for the birmingham meet then all of this unnecessary behaviour would not of occured on a thread which is lets face it about being parents.:heartpuls Baby Due 11th August 2012 :heartpuls0 -
Advice needed again! Erin has stopped eating, there is no real reason why and she will eat sweet things if allowed and is drinking plenty. she is definatly not going waste away anytime soon so im not making a big deal out of it just not sure what to do?Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
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My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »Right - can someone tell me I am mad - I am considering inviting MIL to come away with us because she has been a bit down lately but I know I will want to get away from her if she does come...I need a slap!!Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
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It is posts such as this that make me glad i am not a regular poster on this thread , i have posted occasionally and when i have posted the only response i have had is from someone who i spoke to on another thread sometime ago, who incidentally also does not post regularly on this thread. I would say there are "groups" of people on this thread who tend to only reply to each other and for me that makes it difficult when you are a new poster on the thread to feel "included" .
This meet that was arranged was done as i see it as very spur of the moment literally a "right i have decided we will have a meet in birmingham its in the middle of everyone " , clearly its not in the middle of everyone , the majority of people going live fairly close to birmingham apart from a few who are travelling from further away . IMO if people get a hard time on here then it is only because of what they post , why post every detail of your life if you are not prepared for the responses you may get ? :undecided
I dont see why everyone should give a reason for not going to the meet , if you dont want to go then why give a reason ? It may of been a better idea to do what has happened on other areas of the forum and start up a post specifically for the birmingham meet then all of this unnecessary behaviour would not of occured on a thread which is lets face it about being parents.
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I don't really agree with you on some points here - SM didn't just decide to have a meet in Birmingham - it was after quite a lot of thought into where might be easier to meet and she actually asked everyone on the thread several times where they thought the meet should take place. She has done a fantastic job organising it.
No-one has been asked to give a reason why they aren't going, however several people, myself included, did so because we wanted to make it clear that we weren't ignoring the hard work that SM had gone to in planning this meet. I think Tara's comments were partly in response to the fact that a lot of people hadn't indicated either way if they were going to be there (apologies if I have this wrong).
It can be hard to get involved in this thread if you are new as many of the regulars know each other very well, and it's difficult keeping up with the speed of the thread. Having said that, whenever I've asked for advice or help, there's been no end of responses, so I think it's worth putting some time in to get known and get involved.
Sorry for the long response, I just fear that there's a danger of this thread descending into a slanging match unnecessarily.Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky'
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It is posts such as this that make me glad i am not a regular poster on this thread , i have posted occasionally and when i have posted the only response i have had is from someone who i spoke to on another thread sometime ago, who incidentally also does not post regularly on this thread.
I'm sorry your post was missed, I try to say hello when I see new posters posting but sometimes I miss people. I find it upsetting that the thread seems cliquey - I suppose it must be true since it's said so often but it does make me sad.Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
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It's been said it's cliquey a couple of times but I don't think it is. At the end of the day when people are online they chat to whoever else is online. Posts don't get ignored on purpose and most of the time if someone flies in and asks a question they get welcomed and replied to pretty much straight away by a number of different people.
No we don't all answer every post and we don't always bother to catch up but I don't believe people are deliberately ignored. I think those that find it cliquey are maybe those that don't make an effort to chat...A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...My Fathers Daughter wrote: »Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.
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