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I Don't Have Kids Why Pay For Someone Else's?

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  • skibadee
    skibadee Posts: 1,304 Forumite
    Zaine_UK wrote: »
    Yes, but do you think it's fair? Then if we break up i can get her to pay me back the money i've paid into the house rather than walking away with nothing if i was paying rent. Single men have rights too.


    I honestly can not believe your for real :mad:
  • Zaine_UK
    Zaine_UK Posts: 14 Forumite
    You lot are obviously all single women and i know why.
  • tinkerbell28
    tinkerbell28 Posts: 2,720 Forumite
    Wrong I am married:beer:
  • dreamywings1
    dreamywings1 Posts: 420 Forumite
    Im not single either!!!
    total debt at LBM £4800
    Debt as of Mar 2016 £1790 Hope to be debt free July 2016:eek:
    Sealed pot challenge number 552
  • briona
    briona Posts: 1,454 Forumite
    Zaine_UK wrote: »
    You lot are obviously all single women and i know why.
    Obviously we have more respect for ourselves than to date a money-grabbing, selfish idiot such as yourself!
    If I don't respond to your posts, it's probably because you're on my 'Ignore' list.
  • donnaessex
    donnaessex Posts: 562 Forumite
    Married but with a brain.

    Just so you know - my mums been with my stepdad for 15 years and he STILL isnt on her mortgage. Its NOT the norm to add your new bloke onto the deeds.
    :o Trying to become debt free but this site makes me spend a fortune!!! :o
  • Zaine_UK
    Zaine_UK Posts: 14 Forumite
    Poor blokes.

    So you think it's right that i move in pay her mortgage and all her bills. She can dump me at anytime and i get nothing? Or don't have a safety net?
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
    10,000 Posts
    skibadee wrote: »
    I honestly can not believe your for real :mad:

    I know a few men like the OP (and admittedly, a few women too) ... most of them are now in their early 40's, live down the pub and, err, single! ;)
    Gone ... or have I?
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
    10,000 Posts
    Zaine_UK wrote: »
    Poor blokes.

    So you think it's right that i move in pay her mortgage and all her bills. She can dump me at anytime and i get nothing? Or don't have a safety net?

    You could dump her at any time also. If you had a mortgage with her your money would be tied up in her property, and you would still have an obligation to pay towards the mortgage.
    Gone ... or have I?
  • blue_monkey_2
    blue_monkey_2 Posts: 11,435 Forumite
    OP, you sounds like a right catch!!

    I hope you've been keeping all your till receipts for nights out, etc.. so if she ever dumps you then you can sue her through the courts. It is really easy too google moneyclaimonline and you'll see. Only costs £30 too.

    Yep, I am married too. I hope your poor girlfriend comes to her senses real soon.
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