MSE Parents Club Part 12

csh_2

BeenieCat wrote: »

Aye, been down in the dumps but thought it was best i come back so you can all kick me up the bum so i'm not moping around. Tried back on my tablets but they make me properly suicidal so balls to that lol!

But i didn't come to moan

And i want to know Krystal's :eek: :eek: thing too

*big run up and kick in the rear*

Have you been back to the GP about the tabs?
Anything happening with the housing situation?
Whats the current pushchair situation :cool:

got-it-spend-it

aless02 wrote: »

Thanks, Fitz. I'm not entirely sure what the problem is (of course, because if I did, I would fix it!). The wake-ups are generally uneventful and he will settle back down fairly easily - so I'm inclined to think it's not so much an I-want-mama thing as a I-woke-up-and-need-help-getting-back-to-sleep-okay-there-we-go-zzzzzzzz, which the usual culprit is EITHER undertired or overtired! :eek: So it's a bit of experimenting to figure out which of the 2 it is. I will add putting to bed later on the list of things to attempt - the first thing I'm going to try is cutting back on naps, as doing some reading they are on the high end for his age so maybe he needs less day sleep but none of us have realised (not even him, because he takes them quite easily).

Off to a friend's house in a bit...not sure I want to, since I know for a fact she didn't have any sleep problems with her LO. :p but maybe he can teach Finn a thing or two in secret baby talk! :rotfl:

Eta: also, we do generally have a plan of action in the night, but sometimes it goes out the window when DH wakes up in one of his ogre moods, which happens occasionally.

Also, hi Beenie! How's Amber?

I know this is totally unhelpful, but I'm not sure there is any reason or rhyme to a lot of night waking. I think a lot of it is them waking up like we do in the night, because we need to roll over or stretch or whatever, then as Aless says they struggle to settle themselves again. I also wonder if some of it is that they don't know how to make themselves comfortable again on their own without being picked up and put down again. Probably not very helpful, but just my own theory on it.

:hello: Beenie. How's the apple? I ordered a petite star zia and am waiting impatiently for it to arrive.

BeenieCat

csh wrote: »

*big run up and kick in the rear*

Have you been back to the GP about the tabs?
Anything happening with the housing situation?
Whats the current pushchair situation :cool:

No, cos i keep putting it off.

The HELLHOLE situation... haha well... The Goonies were banging as they do, noisy fooktards that they are. So my DS banged back. And Mr Goonie banged back BLATANTLY on purpose and i thought my wall was going to fall down. So down came a red mist and i RAGED and went round next door effing and blinding and screaming at them. The !!!!!!!! was trying to come and batter me but his wife pulled him away.

So the next day the housing officer bint came round (they'd rang her and made a complaint about me). I was like get fooked i think i've done well for this to have gone on 9 months til i lost it!!!!! Anyway i had a proper go at her aswell and said i'm not happy about the way any of this has been handled and that i'm seriously thinking of going private i'm not being taken seriously etc. Not that it did any good cos nothing has changed and they#re still being !!!!!!! noisy and it's making me want to kill myself. :mad::mad::mad: They keep making the HO feel sorry for them "cos they can't live in their house as normal". Umm i've lived here 7 years "normal" with "normal" neighbours til they !!!!!!! moved in and THEY managed to not make all this noise.

And that night, the other side!!!!! had their thunder racing war games on full blast so i went all psycho again and properly goosed my wall in and the docile muppet knocked on the door to be greeted with YOU EFFING IGNORANT INCONSIDERATE W****S I'M EFFING SICK TO DEATH OF THIS!!!!!!!! ETC. He didn't know what to say but he didn't really gt chance cos i was in such a rage i felt like i wasn't properly in control of myself :eek: I slammed the door in his face and raged for days. At least they !!!!!! after that (for about 12 hours), the other side brazenly don't bother now.

I have 9/10 months of 24hrs a day pure ANGER built up inside me and god forbid if they say something to me in the street. And while i type this they're at it worse than ever ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

Omg rant.

BeenieCat

Amber has a tooth!! Noticed it poking through yesterday!

I sold the Apple, and have bought a Joolz. I went to M&P and loved it. It's not here yet though... should be on Weds.

got-it-spend-it

Yay for Amber's tooth and yay for the Joolz! I hope it's fab.

Sarah_Joanne

Thanks Krystal. I also [STRIKE]need [/STRIKE]want to hear your news though

:wave: Hi Beenie. Sorry your neighbours are all still at it.

Evansangel

:rotfl: Beenie, your rant made me laugh! But seriously, your neighbours are [EMAIL="w@nkers"]w@nkers[/EMAIL]!

Sooo.. We're going to view a house today!! :j
This one

It has an actual front door! And the kitchen will be the same floor as the living room! :j:j

We will use the other reception room as our bedroom and have the two upstairs ones for the babies

Then i have my college interview, eek! Nervous!

Woke up this morning to find Lily had turned all the way round in her cot and had her feet where her head previously was! :eek: She moves around so much now, means i cant leave her on the sofa :eek:

Last night she kept turning from her front to her back, but she wont do it now

tiamai_d

Holy Crap, Beenie, rock on girl!!!

Yeah for teeth, and YAY for Joolz!!! What colour?

SusanC_2

Beenie good to "see" you but sorry the neighbours noise thing still hasn't been sorted out. I wonder if a letter to the local press might help?

3onitsway

Krystaltips wrote: »

I just found something out and I'm a bit :eek::eek::eek:

Anyway, off to buggy fit...

You can't come in, say that and booger off out to buggy fit! :mad:


Lovely to see you back Beenie - but sorry your neighbours are still t**ts!
Is private renting an option for you? But then why should you have to move because of them! :mad: