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Learning to live my dreams not trample on them

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Glad I brought a smile to your face! Mystery guest hasn't arrived yet - don't know if she is just late, or if she is lost or whether she has decided we are man eating monsters and has decided not to come?!! Have turned oven off....

    Need to try and make up some time asap... 2 hours from today..... about 4 hours for Thursday's funeral and 2 hours for DD's appointment on Monday!! I do probably have a couple of months to do it in tho....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • *Jellie*
    *Jellie* Posts: 3,018 Forumite
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    Hope she arrives soon x
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    I bit the bullet and rung her... apparently sat nav has sent her to the wrong place.... Hope she finds us!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • *Jellie*
    *Jellie* Posts: 3,018 Forumite
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    The joys of sat navs! Hope she managed to find you
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  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,512 Forumite
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    Hi SH

    You are keeping up with the gym use really well. I went for a swim yesterday and am planning to go again on Thursday and then to Tai Chi.

    Those Tada lists are looking pretty full too. It's amazing JUST how MUCH time we can spend on the 'puter. I often thin I should be doing something instead, but I get a lot of my inspiration from these boards.

    I'm so pleased that the bike turned out to be low cost.

    How is your knee doing now?

    Milann
    January spends - £587.58
  • Hi jellie - yeah she found us just after 8pm bless - she had been driving round for 45 minutes!

    We had dinner and then made lots of cards which was nice....
    milann wrote: »
    I went for a swim yesterday and am planning to go again on Thursday and then to Tai Chi.

    Those Tada lists are looking pretty full too. It's amazing JUST how MUCH time we can spend on the 'puter. I often thin I should be doing something instead, but I get a lot of my inspiration from these boards.

    How is your knee doing now?
    Hi Milann - Good to hear you are using the gym too

    I am trying to be more balanced on how long I spend on the computer... but also to respect myself for what I have done rather than "dis" myself for what I haven't!

    My knee is still sometimes painful to the touch and can be achey if I am stuck in traffic but generally it is fine. It certainly isn't stopping me doing anything... I still have some swelling but that has been going down now I have been doing the gym stuff....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    Its always better though if they are that way round. would sooner 'street angel - house devil' than well behaved at home and horrors at other peoples houses.

    Search & Rescue, no, probably still cleaning cupboards; once you start, it becomes addictive **apparently**
    Very good point. I would too, truth be told. MIL & her sis couldn't stop raving about what a lovely lad he was :A
    As for addictive? I'm really not sure I know what you're talking about ;)
    Hi BZ - OH has a nerve it is easier to get DS to stuff than "DH"!
    :rotfl:Saying nothing! Then again, I think your OH is probably like his son...:D He's quite helpful for his favourite SIL:p
    I bit the bullet and rung her... apparently sat nav has sent her to the wrong place.... Hope she finds us!
    I think satnavs have some kind of black spot for certain places. It does amuse me when I'm happily going along a road and TomTom thinks I'm in a river or the middle of a field or something!

    My car's poorly sick, and I'm not sure it's gonna be worth resuscitating :(
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    sorry to hear about your car!! hope you find a solution....

    do I gather Gill posted something then deleted it as your post doesn't really make sense LOL
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • *Jellie*
    *Jellie* Posts: 3,018 Forumite
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    Sounds like you had a lovely mse evening in the end. Sorry to hear your knee is still painful but it is good that it is improving.

    Sorry about the car Bigzippy. I hope it isn't as bad as feared.
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  • sorry to hear about your car!! hope you find a solution....

    do I gather Gill posted something then deleted it as your post doesn't really make sense LOL


    Its random when you quote replies to quotes, I was actually replying to this
    bigzippy wrote: »
    Your DH was moaning that he doesn't behave like that at home :rotfl:


    Got lost then did ya? :p Do I need to send in Search & Rescue?

    And both of them are a credit to you.

    Off to bed soon, early start tomorrow, long drive ahead.
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



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