I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

babyb06

Spoony - do we have the same sister?!

Within hours of me announcing my enegagement she was pulling a face and moaning to all that I hadn't asked her to be a bridesmaid - I hadn't asked ANYONE to be one yet - i only just got engaged!

Then she told me she didn't want to be one and came up with lots and lots of reasons why. Fine, I asked other people who all said yes. My wedding party is 'balanced' best man and 2 ushers with 3 adult bridesmaids, a little flower girl and a page boy.

Now, she is upset i didn't realise her 'i don't want to be a bridesmaid' actually meant 'i desperately want to be one, please, please ask me'! and is upset i didn't ask! I spoke to you on a number of occasions, you always said no, categorically no! How was i meant to know you weren't telling the truth!

Argh! Families!

bubbles0169

IAABAMConfession is...
everytime i hear that one of my BM'S has been pigging out i do a sharp intake of breathe thinking that my bargainous buy of the dresses wont be so bargainous if i have to but brand new bigger ones which wont even be the same as they have been discontinued!!
i asked you what size you are, i bought a size up just incase now please stop putting on more weight and giving me hives!

emz118

My bleedin mother has now decided she does want to be on the stupid top table after all.... but now I've moved everyone around, invited my bridesmaids boyfriend as she'd had to move from the top table and asked my stepmum to take mums place.... I explained all of this and she had the blimmin nerve to get stroppy with me!!! ARGHHHHH!!!!!!

And breathe...

jemb

Could be worse about bridesmaids, you could have had the girl that threatened to push me down 2 flights of stairs at my engagement party as I hadnt told her beforehand she wasnt going to be a bridesmaid. Also hadnt told her she was going to be mind you, how do you start that conversation; "We've assessed the bridesmaids and I'm afraid you dont match our criteria" are you really meant to tell all your friends who aren't going to be a bridesmaid?!

johannalf88

Oh Jemb! I hope she was either joking (although I doubt it) or no longer a friend!!

double_mummy

poor everyone with bad bridesmaids!!!!

i may have overheard a phone conversation about the OH going to collect the 'item' he has dropped the baby off at nursery and has disappeared - he isnt answering his phone and hasnt told me where he has gone

i'm thinking either drugs or my engagement ring so now i'm getting all excited or preparing to ring the police

Hadley1

OMG - Thats terrible. Was she being serious???? :eek:

johannalf88

Ooh he is leaving it a bit late isn't he Doublemummy?! Your ultimatum is Wednesday!

double_mummy

yup but he always does jo lol

he was xmas shopping on xmas eve last year its just what hes like!!!!

i have the one i got for him if wednesday comes - knowing me i'm wrong but who knows YAY

sugarwalsh

Double Mummy I have everything crossed for you!