I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

Birdie85

Not silly at all caity! You're spending a lot of money and it needs to be right! If you were getting stressed about socks I'd think you were weird though! (Although if we were having the White Wedding here I'd be making sure they were all wearing co-ordinating socks!)

caitybabes

Thanks Birdie,

Sometimes you get so tied down in detail that you can't tell what's reasonable and what's a bit pedantic!

Yep, we want it all to be right as we'll be spending our hard earned cash clothing these fellas and the photos will look great if we get it right.

Cait

deborahmcgeachy

I'm a bridezilla and i'm sick of my sisters being my bridesmaids!!!!!

Birdie85

Cait, if it's not right you'll be wincing every time you look at the photos! I think we're all Bridezillas because we don't want to regret anything about Our Day!

I'm fed up of the BM situation too Deborah! One is fine (my brother's GF) and super excited, the other can't make up her mind if she's coming or not and I need to know soon as my Mum is going to buy the dresses from America when she goes in a few weeks time. I'm tempted to tell her that she's missed her slot and if she decides she does want to come she can buy her own stinking dress! I'm also fed up of seeing my other friends who aren't in the bridal party because they make me feel guilty every time we talk about the wedding! Why can't they see that I can't afford to kit out 4 girls and it will be ridiculous anyway to have them all at a low key beach wedding!

deborahmcgeachy

Birdie85 wrote: »

Cait, if it's not right you'll be wincing every time you look at the photos! I think we're all Bridezillas because we don't want to regret anything about Our Day!

I'm fed up of the BM situation too Deborah! One is fine (my brother's GF) and super excited, the other can't make up her mind if she's coming or not and I need to know soon as my Mum is going to buy the dresses from America when she goes in a few weeks time. I'm tempted to tell her that she's missed her slot and if she decides she does want to come she can buy her own stinking dress! I'm also fed up of seeing my other friends who aren't in the bridal party because they make me feel guilty every time we talk about the wedding! Why can't they see that I can't afford to kit out 4 girls and it will be ridiculous anyway to have them all at a low key beach wedding!

I know where your coming from Birdie, thing is with my friends the 1s that aren't in the bridal party are more excited for me than my actual sisters are!!! I have 3 sisters and the youngest 1 is the only 1 bothered with anything!!!

sunshine_shell

Alyssa_C wrote: »

DO NOT BE SUBTLE OR GIVE HINTS! If your OH is anything like mine, you'll get nowhere He has compromised with me, we have three 'best men' and I will be instructing the other two, trustworthy ones to pin him down and beat him if he's a chore.

I have done it!!!!

I told him outright that i didn't want is swearing little oink of a brother as best man!!

I was waving a knife about because i was cutting the chicken at the time but i think it added to the effect!! lol:rotfl:

greenmoneysaver_2

Excellent, anything to get the desired result!

Thank god my OH hasn't even considered his brother as BM, he is an ars*.

My latest BZ confession is

I want a dress change after the ceremony as I have 2 dresses I want to wear. . .

Birdie85

LOL @ waving a knife around for effect!

I just 'zilla'd my MIL2B into fearful submission, hehe. She lives in jeans and t-shirts and had said ages ago that she'll need me to help her choose an outfit to wear for the wedding so I sent her a text saying that I'd seen some lovely dresses that would look great on her and we need to go shopping soon so she can try them on and she dared to argue back about not wanting to! I told her the sooner she gives in the better because I'm not backing down (I may have also said something about turning her into a lady if it kills me...;))... I'm not scared of her like OH is! I think she realised that I'm not to be messed with on this and has agreed to it! Mwahaha! Now I just have to dress the rest of the in-laws!

AimSay

Hi i'm Aims and I am a bridezilla!

My confessions are

MIL2B isnt happy about our guestlist( invites went out weeks & weeks ago) so I grabbed the kiddies crayon and scribbled MIL2B's name off in front of her!
It was really really childish but boy it felt good and on the plus side she hasnt mentioned the guestlist again.

My younger cousin has chosen to wear a skintight mini red dress & stilettos she looks like a hooker in it!:mad: Our colour scheme is burgundy & white and I kept hinting that she will clash, she wouldn't listen so I've stolen the dress and hidden it in my garage!

Myslef and my BM's will have mini roses and butterflys in their hair. I was telling my friend where I got them from and now she has gone and got some for herself and her kids! When she showed me I snatched them up and shouted No No No No my roses miiiiiiiiiiiiine and then left:o

I am usually so calm :A, I was moaning a few weeks ago why do weddings make people so childish and now I've come over all childish! :eek:

magicgirl

My name is magicgirl and I am a bridezilla.

another wedding website recently had a makeover and its now very crap and hard-to-use which i think is very selfish considering i had bookmarked LOADS of info and now its all gone so I feel a bit like i am starting from scratch.

My major bz issues are:
Ensuring H2B keeps his hair long. I want him to have a plait. not sure if it will happen but i love the idea and keep telling him its how it will be done.

H2b wants us to stay together the night before which i have flatly refused to do. I am extremely supersticious about sily things

I have to keep making (and revising) lists. Its my thing. I get a bit OCD with it.

I am freaking out about the logistics of getting venue/church etc ready cos they are all a fair distance away from each other.

There are loads more but i am worrying myself by noting them down (I haven't listed the REALLY bad stuff cos this is a public forum.. LoL )