MSE Pregnancy Club 18

dreambirdie

im in two minds whether to allow this baby a dummy or not. its just i remember how horrible it was getting it taken off me (i was 6/7 :eek:)

pigpen

See how it goes.. it might not need a dummy anyway..

sweaty_betty

dreambirdie wrote: »

ouch tigtag! are we allowed to use cordosyl mouthwash? i used it a few yrs ago when i had a gum infection its vile but works.

Hi there - I'm pretty sure it's ok (well, hope it is, I've been using it for the past few months!). It is horrid, but does the job :-)

MERFE

My daughter didn't have a dummy - I think her suck was too strong because at the end of the suck it would fly out her mouth and I didn't have time to be stood holding it in for her all the time. She also made the loudest noise ever sucking her bottle.

DS had a dummy and we forgot to take it to my mums at 8 months, he cried for 15 minutes before going down for his nap, then when we went home we didn't give it back and he never cried again for it. He was a dream baby, I hope this one is just like him, doubt it though.

kitkat5566

Thanks PP I think I will try resist using them as I bet they're a nightmare to wean the LO off!

I have come home and feel like screaming, I've had a carp day and I come into the house I tidied this morning and it's a tip, it's minimal things but it really annoys me: OH has washed glasses only and left saucepans/ plates/ cutlery/ baking tray, he has left tea stains all over work surface, along with stinky used tea bags, then left the tea bag jar there empty (there's box full in cupboard) I swear every piece of paper that was neatly stacked has been thrown around, there was an empty loo roll chucked on floor, bed not made, bits of rubbish all over table. I just feel like my daily routine is tidy house, go to work, come home, re-tidy what he's messed up, cook tea, sleep! He isn't even working.. Am I being completely unreasonable?! I don't mention it to him as I don't wana be a nag but it just pi$$es me off, I'm so nackered I just wana lie down

Sorry rant over, feel better just venting!

dreambirdie

PIGPEN i swear i still miss my dummy. i honsetly believe that was the most traumatic experience getting it taken away lol. i actually remember stealing £1.00 from my granny and sneaking to the shop across the street to buy one :rotfl:

hassle1

Definately NOT unreasonable KK. I would have gone mad if I was in your position.

Go lay down hun, you deserve and need it! I know that by the time I get home, I will need to do the same, and there is no way I will be tidying up after an adult!

xmaslolly76

Kitkat you need to say something to him chick you cant keep doing everything he should at least be washing up and putting away what he has used. Go and lay down and forget about it if he asks why the place is a tip tell him your exhausted and cant be expected to keep picking up after him.

MERFE

oh kitkat my hubby is like that with the washing up - he'll do the plates but leave the saucepans and say he had no room. I say well I can't cook till he has washed them. I stopped doing it for him and have completely stopped nagging as it got my nowhere except stressed out. When he moans he has no clean uniform I remind him he knows where the washing machine is, if he moans about the floors or anything I remind him he can do it. The thing is if I did it he would let me do it all because I'm home during the day but I do alot of the cleaning, all errands, playing with the kids, cooking and I work all evening so sometimes I'm just too shattered in the day. I don't ask much of him, just empty the bins and wash dishes in the evening and wipe the kitchen sides down after washing up (this is one he rarely remembers and I have to do it in the morning). He doesn't do the dishes in the evening like I would like and chooses to do them in the morning before work but at least once a week he'll wake up late and not have time before he has to leave it winds me right up because he could have done it in the evening grrr. Men you can't live with 'em.

dreambirdie

no you are not being unreasonable. you HAVE to tell him, and dont worry you arent being a nag, but sometimes fellas are just so bleeding stupid they need to be told what to do!!