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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    yikes hope the blister isnt too bad ... remember dont burst it when it appears
  • funnyflipp
    funnyflipp Posts: 278 Forumite
    BF
    My goodness you have been through SO much I don't know how you have held it all together it makes me feel so sad that you have had to go through all this, but so hugley humble that you have managed it all, WELL DONE :beer:

    And hurrah for OH who seems to be much more like the person you deserve, long may it last :T
    I hope if things do go as you fear that something will come along for you that is fabulous and life changing xx

    Keep posting

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  • elantan wrote: »
    yikes hope the blister isnt too bad ... remember dont burst it when it appears

    Thanks, don't think its going to develop into a huge mahoooosive blister but its extremely sore....and when I wash my hands could cry :cry:

    But mainly male environment so have to keep a brave face on things at the moment ....:o will get plenty of tlc from OH when I get home :A

    Oh NO!! Another phone call from Estate Agents, my buyer has just pulled out as he has been made redundant this morning.....:( it was nothing more than I expected to be honest after the viewing at the weekend....he brought his mother around and she was asking loads of questions etc.....he seemed a little disinterested although his brother was very enthusiastic I couldn't make up my mind it was because she was there or because he had lost interest. So it has come as no surprise really.....:(:(
    Total debt £[STRIKE]37864.78 [/STRIKECOLOR=purple][FONT=Arial Narrow][SIZE=1 [/STRIKE][STRIKE] £31681.03[/STRIKE] -[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]£16700
    Paid off so far.....[STRIKE]£15495.84[/STRIKE]£20364
  • funnyflipp wrote: »
    BF

    And hurrah for OH who seems to be much more like the person you deserve, long may it last :T


    Thank you, I am sure that he will always be around, we cannot imagine life without each other...luckily we both feel the same way:kisses2:
    Total debt £[STRIKE]37864.78 [/STRIKECOLOR=purple][FONT=Arial Narrow][SIZE=1 [/STRIKE][STRIKE] £31681.03[/STRIKE] -[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]£16700
    Paid off so far.....[STRIKE]£15495.84[/STRIKE]£20364
  • elantan
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    That's getting beyond a joke now with this guy .... Was any paper work signed ? I know when mine was sold and they delayed by a few months the buyer was legally obliged to pay a kinda fine type thing .... Have heard of others that get this money paid to them till the house sells as it isn't the sellers fault

    Good luck with it all
  • Hiya

    No, there wasn't any paperwork signed at all. He has messed about for 2 weeks trying to get the price reduced :mad: :mad: :mad: by saying that the house prices were due to fall by 20% next month etc....and came back with an offer of £5k less than he previously offered...in the end I accepted £1k less than the original offer.

    He has emailed the estate agents to advise that he went into work this morning and has been made redundant. In fairness it could be true, but on the other hand I just knew that something was amiss with the viewing on Saturday.:(

    The estate agents had already told me to reduce the price of the house to £84,950 to attract more buyers, but in fact it has only led to lower prices. But when I told them this and said that I wanted it putting back up to the original price they refused saying that they couldn't do that.....:eek: am seriously thinking of getting in a cash for homes kinda place but don't know if they will offer even less....I got my mortgage statement which shows that with the early redemption charges I owe £65k, so with the £3k for the estate agents and then £500+ for solicitors this would leave me with around approx £16500 ish to repay the debts....whilst it would clear my car and a couple of the smaller ones..I will still have a large amount to clear....:eek:, and that is WHEN I can get hold of it as my solicitor has to do an undertaking until the finances are sorted out with regards to the divorce :mad:
    Total debt £[STRIKE]37864.78 [/STRIKECOLOR=purple][FONT=Arial Narrow][SIZE=1 [/STRIKE][STRIKE] £31681.03[/STRIKE] -[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR]£16700
    Paid off so far.....[STRIKE]£15495.84[/STRIKE]£20364
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    yeah i remember reading that further back in your diary ( have been lurking on your diary for a wee while) and i thought then what a cheeky ba$tard ... he really has messed you about and you dont deserve that ... hope you get it sold soon
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    did you think about renting any more ?
  • LittleBoots
    LittleBoots Posts: 1,098 Forumite
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    I knew he was a diddy that buyer, so sorry to hear that he has pulled out :(
    About renting, I know you just want rid of the place and to cut ties but would you consider it??? Means to an end and all that.
    On a positive note, glad the party went well :). xxx
  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    I knew he was a diddy that buyer, so sorry to hear that he has pulled out :(
    About renting, I know you just want rid of the place and to cut ties but would you consider it??? Means to an end and all that.
    On a positive note, glad the party went well :). xxx


    hahahahahaha littleboots i've not heard that for ages.......DIDDY then i checked your location, says Scotland made me :rotfl: it's my new word for the week
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