I Just Cant Take Any More

Toto

Hi Lynz, we don't do DJs, we are all live bands but I can give you the contact details for one of our clients who are event organisers but do all DJ work. They call us when they have a band, so we work with them a lot. If the OH is any good at crew work, rigging, loading, change overs on stage, setting a stage, you know the kind of thing then for sure we will book him for some gigs. he doesn't need to be hugely experienced, we are happy to train people, even having a full driving licence helps because we can use him for pick ups and deliverys plus driving vans to gigs. Lots of our crew don't drive or have over 6 points so we can't use them for driving.
Basically all we need from a crew member is to be quick, to set a tidy stage and to be able to lift gear. PM me if he is interested. We have pretty much passed through our very busy season, june and july were manic, but it's a bit quieter now, we do get a lot of last minute events in though so we never can tell.

The house is almost done, I need a carpenter still and we now need a plasterer to repair a wall (stripped wallpaper and the 60 year old plaster crumbled) But, we are on the market, just trying to get it done before people come to view. I am working reduced hours this weekend to get it done before monday. The estate agent has had quite a bit of interest already so I hope it will sell quickly. It is looking lovely apart from the hole in the wall and a little bit of carpentry.

Good luck with your house, I hope it goes easily for you. Moving into rented was the best move I could have made, I am loving it here. The kids love it too. We have a big green out the back surrounded by houses, everyone meets there in the evenings for a social with a few beers, the kids all play together during the daytime. It's a very friendly place. Have you looked at rental places yet? Hey, come to Hertfordshire and become my childminder... I am struggling to find one LOL.

Anyway, enjoy the festival, I wish I could come. Have an ice cream for me!

xxx

margaretkb

really feel for you - am also in a 'dark' place at the moment (feel everything could come crashing down any day now - secret debts, health problems, can't ever have children - tried IVF which failed ) I'm trying to hang on in there so please, you hang on in there too! A tip passed to me: to have a relaxing aromatherapy massage contact local beauty school where supervised students will give you a massage for a fraction (or free?) of the cost you would normally pay. You deserve it x
Margaret

lynzpower

Oh margaret, Im sorry to hear of your situation.

I feel quite a bit better today, and Im looking forward. thats the main thing.

kickingkay

lynzpower wrote:

i just feel the need to moan really badly,and ive been looking at holidays on the internetwith a view to just running away

honestly? Can my life get any worse?

1)OH left his job on friday ( temping) due to being quite badly bullied and he was going to lamp someone so walked before he did - a good thing yes, but no work really coming through this week despite best efforts

2) Im on half pay and have a grand total of 100 in my bank until the 20th

3) We yesterday found out that his dad has a very serious disease

4) I found out today that Ive had an abnormal smear and that its pre-cancerous - have to have this investigated and cant get hold of my GP ( called helplines etc, theyve made me more worried)

OHs frustrated and pi55ed off., Im frustrated and pi55ed off. Its so hot the sweat is rolling off my face. Darent go anywhere, yesterday we went to walk to tescos and I nearly collapsed again and OH had to carry me home

I cant focus on anything ( still have to do this stupid court allocation questionaire, jsut cant sit still and think enough to manage it) Ive tried reading, the telly bores me, I cant concentrate, im just dwelling.

Aaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

And you took the time to write to me!
why is it some people jsut dont deserve the !!!!!! that is dished to them,
right put this into catagories of what is possible for you to do today
focus on what you are able to do and do that alone, then move onto the next thing y0ou have so much going on , you need to put it into boxes and open them one at a time
(((((((hugs)))))))))
klare xx

OberonSH

Hey lady, just wanted to say hi, and hope you're feeling better. We're all here for you, anything you need let us know. Thinking of you chick.

lynzpower

im taking your advice oberon about the final clear out. And looking forward to moving on myself

This isnt forever, its the here adn now that counts.

Im looking forward to getting the flat all sorted, looking at the pictures online and knowing that moving is going to help get things better, not worse. even the basics OH reminded me, I cnt take the heat of this flat, so time to move on myself.

I love a good plan lets hope it all comes together

rkh001

Lynz, so sorry everything is on top of you. I can't add any more than all the others have said except, hang in there. Life is a long hard road and s**t happens. You have done so well and will do so again - hugs to you.

rkh

Littlemiss-lotsofdebt

Hi Lynz

Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time. I can completely sympathise with the whole smear thing. I've had years of hassle and numerous tests, and had 'abnormal' smears one after the other. I'm now down to annual tests rather than every few months which is encouraging. :j

My mum also had pre-cancerous cells and I remember her also being scared, but she's now absolutely fine and I am sure you will be too

I hope everything starts to pick up for you shortly.

love
LMLOD xx

elona

Lynpower

I hope things get better for you quickly.

The lodger will be gone in less than 2 days!:j

New place will be less hot and you can look forward to getting things how you like them!:j

Smear may not be as bad as you fear and if it is - you should have beeen found early enough for things to be sorted out.


Great big hug and please let us know how you get on.

You so do not deserve this and hope things improve for you.

Mike_St_Helens

Hey petal... Sorry about your rubbish time at the mo0... I know we havnt chatted much on here but I know SH**T when its thropwn at you beleiev me !

Things will be fine, My best mate had the abnormal stuff... dont worry it will be fine!! BF will get another job, he should have lamped the bullies... hate them... why are bullies everywhere !!... Go get a bloody big bottle of wine, some nice grub and treat yourself with a tenner or so... You need it.

Mike x