Relationship advice

thorsoak

The more I read of Jamespir's posts, the more I know that I really ought to put him on an "ignore" list!

emsywoo123

thorsoak wrote: »

The more I read of Jamespir's posts, the more I know that I really ought to put him on an "ignore" list!

Ha ha I think that but then I would not be able to warn the newbie's to not take his comments to heart!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

wobbly

know what you mean not helpful at all

Zazen999

wobbly wrote: »

know what you mean not helpful at all

Wobbly, back to the topic in hand.

What are your options here?

wobbly

Well i will eventually have to face him and get his side. He needs to make up his mind what he wants. To be honest i dont think i trust him! I have 2 boys to think of but one consulation is that at 14 and 16 they are older and are good lads. I have thought about going away to see how i feel about him! All so confusing at the mo. I feel pretty crap about myself!

candygirl

He's a verbally abusive, and disrepectful drug dealer.Get rid of him asap:mad::mad::mad:

wobbly

thanks candygirl this was what i was struggling with i needed other peoples opinions. wrong i know but i have been through his messages and the conversations he is having with his mate and his wife are so wrong. no respect for me! his mate said he was going to get his wife to sort him out (sex). and to leave such and such alone shes mine (young gal) then 20 viagra for £40 its never ending!

*Louise*

wobbly wrote: »

Hi all
My son has been recently told that his dad is selling viagra. I am mortified. I have not asked him out right yet as to be honest i am scared of what his reaction is going to be. My poor son is so embarrassed.
On Monday i noticed that DH had added young girls on his facebook. 1 he did not know at all, he just confirmed the friend request. Others he knows through family/friends. He invited them to a party, i said i did not think it was right, afterall what 17/18 yr old wants to go out with a 50yr old. His response you silly cow and not spoken since!
Any advice would be great.
Thanks for reading

What's this party he has invited them to?? I tell you honestly, if my husband was inviting young girls out to party with him, and showing complete disprespect for me he would be out that front door! :mad:

Sounds like the old 'midlife crisis' is rearing it's ugly head here. Do you want to stay with him or are you scared to try and split up?

The fact you want a break to see how you feel speaks volumes, as does the fact you don't trust him.

I always advocate trying to talk things through - at least if it doesn't work you can say you tried. Then if you don't resolve things, ask for some time apart.

Wishing you all the best xx

*Louise*

wobbly wrote: »

thanks candygirl this was what i was struggling with i needed other peoples opinions. wrong i know but i have been through his messages and the conversations he is having with his mate and his wife are so wrong. no respect for me! his mate said he was going to get his wife to sort him out (sex). and to leave such and such alone shes mine (young gal) then 20 viagra for £40 its never ending!

Good grief :eek:

Doesn't sound like his friend is any better than him

lynzpower

wobbly wrote: »

thanks candygirl this was what i was struggling with i needed other peoples opinions. wrong i know but i have been through his messages and the conversations he is having with his mate and his wife are so wrong. no respect for me! his mate said he was going to get his wife to sort him out (sex). and to leave such and such alone shes mine (young gal) then 20 viagra for £40 its never ending!

god this would make me feel sick to the stomach.

The very idea of my man wanting ( even in a jokey way) to talk about having sex with anyone else churns my stomach.

Hes meant to you be your partner, whatever happened to the loving, honouring. If he does have relations with other people, he seems just like the sort of fella who would blame you for it, instead of taking responsibility for himself.

Midlife crisis or not, an old man selling viagara to 17 year old girls... really -is this what you want for yourself?