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  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    is it me or are you maiking this up as you go along?


    he called you a silly cow omg file for divorce we can't be having that now can we

    why are you mortified hes selling viagra ?
    whats wrong with him adding girls on facebook?

    and if they want to go to a party they can as long as he's not cheating
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  • Zazen999
    Zazen999 Posts: 6,183 Forumite
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    I think selling Viagra is the least of this relationship's worries.
  • BenL
    BenL Posts: 3,189 Forumite
    Is he working?

    Are you in loads of debt?

    Is he trying to make up a shortfall in income by making a quick but of money?

    If its amateur time and people around the place know he is selling it the police will soon catch up with him. Its an easy collar they will find him no problems.
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  • wobbly
    wobbly Posts: 79 Forumite
    Thanks Ben. He is working we are not in debt.
    James i should of guessed there would be a reply like that. I am not making it up. He has cheated twice years ago, so young girls and viagra, sorry if i get suspicious. Calling me a silly cow, very respectful, not.
    I needed some non biased advice. I do not want to over react.
  • xmaslolly76
    xmaslolly76 Posts: 3,974 Forumite
    Could he be having a midlife Crisis and just trying to make himself feel better?

    The young girls could be boosting his ego i doubt any of them are really interested in him they are probably just playing games like some young girls do and figure free party we can make him feel good about himself for a free night out. unfortuantely non of that helps your relationship and in the long run wont help him as he will come crashing back down to earth like a lead balloon and your left to pick up the pieces.

    I would be more worried about him selling prescription drugs but i wouldnt know how to advise you with that one other than maybe reporting him for it but then you need to think if you are strong enough to cope with the fallout that could potentally bring with it.
    :jFriends are like fabric you can never have enough:j
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    wobbly wrote: »
    Thanks Ben. He is working we are not in debt.
    James i should of guessed there would be a reply like that. I am not making it up. He has cheated twice years ago, so young girls and viagra, sorry if i get suspicious. Calling me a silly cow, very respectful, not.
    I needed some non biased advice. I do not want to over react.

    why would i be biased i dont know the guy all im saying is theres a few things that dont ad up tahts all

    i call my girlfreind a silly cow some time she calls me name 's we dont fall out over it

    as for the young girls and viagra if you think hes palying the field confront him about it theres no need to be scared regardless of what hes done in the past if he hits you you have to report it
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  • Pee
    Pee Posts: 3,826 Forumite
    How do you feel about him? I don't get the impression from your posts that you even like him - and I suspect I'd feel that way to, if he had ever hit me and cheated on me - so maybe you should be considering your options to end the relationship?
  • wobbly
    wobbly Posts: 79 Forumite
    Not sure how i feel anymore Pee. I have been with him so long.
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    wobbly wrote: »
    Thanks Ben. He is working we are not in debt.
    James i should of guessed there would be a reply like that. I am not making it up. He has cheated twice years ago, so young girls and viagra, sorry if i get suspicious. Calling me a silly cow, very respectful, not.
    I needed some non biased advice. I do not want to over react.

    Wobbly, ignore James. He just argues for the sake of it. ;)

    Forget the selling, forget the girls..........you are scared of him? run for the hills lady........
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Wobbly, ignore James. He just argues for the sake of it. ;)

    Forget the selling, forget the girls..........you are scared of him? run for the hills lady........

    no i dont ;)
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