MSE Parents Club Part 11

searching_me

ooooooo just remebered i have chocolate suoffle (sp?) gonna get a bottle of wine and a bottle of soda water ... wine spritzer x

searching_me

right best get my eldest back later xxxxx

tarajayne

Ok SM, we've known each other a long time, and you, like me, have told us a lot. When I was younger I also had some of the same views as you probably down to Dads always leaving so it was like I expected a man to go! You know we both have had some hard times growing up but that puts it firmly on you to change the course of how your children grow up. In the past you have spoken of how you wanted to give up work, how you struggled and how your OH has never worked. You were unhappy with the situation but it is still the same. You have been together a long time and have children so you are comitted and we ll know that being with someone a long time takes hard work. You are a great Mummy and provide for your children, but you also provide for him, which is odd. I did it for 2yrs with my ex then challenged him to pull himself together so he left me. The wally has flippen worked ever since! :mad: When you live with someone longterm, their money is your money (to an extent) and yours is theirs. Your debts are his and his are yours. You are one unit. You work, and then he should work. If you have debts then an evening job is ideal as you save on childcare. I stacked shelves in Tescos! :eek: You pull together, when he works you do the house and vice versa. Now I know this is very idealistic but it happens. I didn't believe that it could but it does. And it didn't in the beginning of my relationship this time but oh golly is sure does now! It is very hard listening to you when you are soo down. When all you wanna say is share the load hun. :A

Do you still love me?

tiamai_d

3onitsway wrote: »

No idea if it's any good Tia, but its nice!


Self centred rant to follow:

:mad::mad: Bloody schools transport have just phoned me. After four weeks, the new taxi escort for J has thrown in the towel, and handed in his notice. He's got tennis elbow and doesn't think he can lift J if he needs to! Why take the bloody job in the first place! :mad: Do these people not realise consistency is very important to people with autism. :mad:

So, now we're back to square one. But i've just told the transport man a little white lie, that I have got no car next week so won't be going to collect him from school.

Hopefully that little white lie will mean they HAVE to get it sorted out rather than relying you. I'd have done the exact same.

BeenieCat wrote: »

OMFG!!!!!!!!! Why do the yellow men keep coming back????

And WHY is it always when i have my booby out???

IDIOTS :mad::mad::mad: It was slightly funny the first time, now it's just a downright invasion of my privacy and i'm annoyed.

Can you write 'sod off yellow men! on your boob? They might pay attention then

searching_me wrote: »

ok starting to think im strange now x

Your just one side of normal hun.

I rely totally on DH financially. He's not that much use in the house, and at times his fathering skills leave a lot to be desired, but we are not all as perfect as I am But you know, I love him and stuff and when it does actually matter, he is there in some shape or form.

My head is less sore after my nap, but I think my cold is hay fever (or whatever it is that I get every year) because it does usually start in March. The headache, dry eyes, runny nose but dry skin in my nose, and over abundance of mucus in my chest is about right... I'm dead sexah me!

SS, I don't think the lights thing is German, they do it over here too.

searching_me

i do agree with alot of points of that ... i dont in a sense want to give up work just where i work to go to college to do the job i really want and yes philip does need to get a job but him paying some of the bills frees money to pay the debt iykwim .. (i think i just want to be superwoman) ...

of course i still love ya ... but i best go before i get in trouble with zoe for forgetting her :rotfl: back later x

My_Fathers_Daughter

Right - off to pick up the boys and then off to my mummy's! She is going to be so surprised to see us.

Take care everyone, I will be back either tomorrow night or Sunday.

Be good xx

tarajayne

School run, eepp! XXX

jillie1974

have a good time MFD!

kindofagilr

Why does the new perfume advert with Kate Moss in it just appear to be sex!

cazscoob

Beenie i think they are just coming back to look at your boobs lol!!!!!!!!!!

i have just picked the Loola up and feel like i stole it from her! its brand new no marks nothing, the carrycot has never been used and is still in original box, the car seat is also as new, there is every rain cover and a changing bag and im honestly thinking of keeping it and parting with the phil and teds!!