MSE Parents Club Part 11

tarajayne

Elle, Maddy has been 'crawling' for weeks. She's very (too) fast but doesn't do it on her knees. You're right, he should be able to do things for himself. X

searching_me

Sami_Bee wrote: »

you can't just forget MH issues though can you, if you could the nhs would be be a lot better off, no more paying for counselling, therapy and pills just tell the patients to get over themselves.

no maybe not ... and suppose in that repect in a way i may not understand but believe me i have been through things and decided to fight i still have issues but they're my issues and dont put them on to people or lash out then blame these issues ... i know from what feelies told me shes had one hell of a hard ride but i like to think thats a fighter in everyone x

elastigirl

I'm back from the hospital and am shattered. Please can i have a healthy baby once he is over this. He has gastroenteritis. They kept him in over night he still isn't keeping milk down and had very bad diarrhoea but he is keeping most of the rehydration fluid down him and his obs and stats were ok so they have let him go home on an 24 hr open acess. His temp dropped back to normal within a few hours and he has slept most of the time.

He has lost half a pound which is alot for him so he is back to being 9lb at nearly 4 months. I have got to take him back in a week and if he doesn't come back on the 0.4th centile then they will admit him to hosptial for a week to mointor his weight. But that week is my ds1 bday so i am hoping H can get over this quickly and start to gain weight again but i can't see he will put on that much in a week when he is still having diarrhoea.

I of course want and need to put H health first but i am torn and feel ds1 is missing out of mummy and daddy time. He stayed with grandparents last night. I wanted his bday week to be so special and fun for him as he is off school and hubby is off work we wanted to take him out.
I have booked a party for him so at least he has that but it won't be very nice for him if me or hubby are at the hospital with H all week.

Sami_Bee

It's much more than that beenie.
as I edited (not sure if you saw?) I'm not belittling what happened to you or denying that things said where out of line.

newmoneysaver_2

Elasti - Poor little mite! Hope he gets over this soon and fingers crossed he starts to put on weight.
How old is DS1? Will he be aware of the day and know it's his birthday? Would you be able to make a different day special and celebrate his birthday a bit late?

tarajayne

Oh Elasti, (((hugs))) needed. You will have to have a special birthday day out for one on one time the week after. But fingers crossed it doesn't happen. Get well vibes sent. XXXXXXXX

searching_me

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.html?p=22138905&postcount=13

after doing alittle searching ... shouldnt feelie becareful what she says to people x

Sami_Bee

elle grrr at silly physio! Ed has only started on the knees crawling this week he much prefers commando crawling and is starting to stand an walk a bit now (which rhys has been doing for ages hasn't he?)

elasti - hugs hun, I hope things get easier for you soon x

searching_me

((hugs)) EG ... hope things get sorted out soon chick xxxxx

aless02

oh elasti, I really hope H gets better soon. Poor guy has had such a rough start to life.