MSE Parents Club Part 11

pinkpig08

THANKYOU CAZ'S FAIRIES!!!

And come just in time for collecting the Avon books back in on Friday! Have taken them out this morning and crossing my fingers for some good orders

Just going to have lunch then try and catch up a bit

SusanC_2

cazscoob wrote: »

Charlie just turned 2 in jan, we dont have a diagnosis as the phycologist told us we were bad parents? i think the nursery were talkin ADHD? TBH i dont know and am keeping an open mind until they all decide!

That's shocking - clearly you aren't because your other four children aren't like that but imagine if they say that sort of thing to people who don't have other children who prove that it's not just them? Have you considered making a complaint about it?

pinkpig08

Ooh big writing!

cazscoob

That was quick PP i posted yesterday late afternoon! didnt expect it to be there so fast! I hope it fits

We had the HV here at the time and i asked the phycologist to leave, we were all to have copies of her reports but they never appeared so the nursery are chasing this up for us. The HV/doc/nursery all agree that there is something but to what degreee etc they cannot give us an opinion until the assessment is complete. They also do not like to 'label' at such a young age?

jillie1974

dora- hope you are feeling better soon.

wi3adora

newmoneysaver wrote: »

Aw hugs Dora - I hope you begin to feel better soon. I had a mega chest infection whilst pregnant and was put back on preventative and relieving inhalers when Liam was 6 weeks old. I felt awful after not needing one for over 6 years, but I'm really bad I haven't kept up using them. It felt really weird using it? Not sure why though as DH is asthmatic and uses both preventative/relieving ones daily.

I have the same worries about Liam being too much for my Mum & Dad. Will you get any extra help from tax credits if your child costs increase?

Chance would be a fine thing. We earn too much, I said to DH that he would have to start doing childcare vouchers aswell through his work. Apparently his dad told him that if this were to happen he would give us the extra money (i'm not supposed to know this but as me and DH don't have secrets he told me) but I would feel mega guilty taking £100 off them every month as MIL doesn't work and FIL is close to retirement but they don't have a dot of money put away and they are going to have to sell up as they won't be able to afford the mortgage on the state pension. Neither of them have works pensions due to the nature of business they are in/were in, but thats a whole other story.

searching_me

right im back .. yes the sainbury baby thing starts tomorrow instore :doh: ... but it wasnt a wasted journey as i got jayden fruit pots (cheers pp the nice woman put it through for me as she thought jayden was cute ) and 2 big bottles of pantene (sp?) for £2.50 well happy x

Sami_Bee

newmoneysaver wrote: »

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Tia - Wow, that's some good useage from the crib Is Amber going in with her brothers?

Edga is still in his I'm very close to buying a small cot for him but won't, tis not good for our marriage to have a baby in our bedroom even longer:o
I have a mountain of crap to sort out so we can get the boys rooms sorted though and I really cba with it

cazscoob wrote: »

Charlie just turned 2 in jan, we dont have a diagnosis as the phycologist told us we were bad parents? i think the nursery were talkin ADHD? TBH i dont know and am keeping an open mind until they all decide!

he/she sounds like a lovely person what a thing to say!

tiamai_d

Sami, Amber is only being moved because she is trying to climb out! She's having her first nap in her big girl cot.

jennynoo

aless02 wrote: »

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I feel sad...got really excited when I saw that they're having a Kite Day on the common close to my house (Jenny, it's at Streatham Common on 11 April if you're interested )...not normally that exciting of news, but it's weekend that DH is in Paris so might be good for getting out of the house with Finn - not that he's old enough to appreciate kites, LOL!!

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I will definitely be going :j(well as long as the weather is ok) I've been before and it's lovely seeing all the kites in the air and they do displays as well.

Had my last parent class today and really sad it's finished but managed to get a few email address and trying to start a facebook page so I can keep in touch with some of them. Bit angry with myself for not speaking up, the speaker today told us all to get plug covers but as someone on her said it's worse to use them. I'm just too quiet sometimes and it's really annoying :mad: