MSE Parents Club Part 11

tarajayne

PP, why didn't you try a nursery? Sometimes it's the noise and distraction of everything else that keeps them happy. Mine were always ok, just me that wasn't!

jillie1974

would a nursery be any better?? maybe with more babies she might be distracted more and might be ok?

newbie_maz

Is Giants Den still happening tomorrow ladies?

cazscoob

Poor you PP i cant imagine how hard it must be esp having to leave her crying and knowing she isnt settling? i would look into the tax credits and as its the changeover to new tax year in a few weeks it might make a difference?

searching_me

eek .. caz you reminded me of the new tax year .. do you include you smp when you work it out x

tarajayne

There used to be a bit where you put your Smp on the form seperately SM. I think they only include a bit of it in their calculation so you need to put it in.

aless02

sm, I just filled out a tax credits form and definitely remember something about SMP being separate from your total...I'm not sure how it works, though, as it's all still quite new to me.

SS :eek: go you!!

cazscoob

im looking forward to it means i can get the new year off to a good start and get my money back into some sort of order! can you phone up with the numbers or do they need to be sent in with forms?(when do the forms get sent out?)

got-it-spend-it

Ugh, I have lots to say but I have a little boy who won't leave my side (or my boob) today!

SS- gas and air is entinox, I believe. Yippee for babymaking.

Jillie- yay for Kian rolling over.

PP- is C ok with OH? Could you maybe get her used to you not being there by leaving her with him?Big hugs as this must all be really tough on you. I hope work are able to delay your return and keep your job open.

Tara- big hugs for Poppie and DD.

Elle- I am so angry at the GP for you! Not really the same, but one of the ladies at one of my groups this week sprained her wrist and she was told by her doctor that he would only give her ibuprofen or anything stronger than paracetamol if she stopped BFing (her baby is the same age as H, so 4 months), which she has. She said she was upset at having to stop but really needed the painkillers. I'm not surprised as I got told I couldn't take anything for my shoulder last week, but you'd hope a doctor would have better information. The whole system doesn't seem as breast feeding helpful as it should :mad:.

elastigirl

yey I have finally started to get child benefit. I have had to really chase it up for some reason. I really want H to go into his own room now, i am sure it will help with his sleeping pattern but hubby doesn't want him to go just yet because of his stidor but it isn't as if he is struggling to breathe with it. Am i being a bad mum wanting him to go to his own room at 3 months?