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MSE Parents Club Part 11

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  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    Oh dear MFD, really hope it works out for you. Hopefully they will realise once you've done 3mths that they can't manage without you. :D
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    It is Weezl, and also because in order to be certificated as a philosophical counsellor one must spend some time in counselling. Two birds, one stone.

    I figure that at the moment I'm a bit wobbly, and if I had a chair that was a bit wobbly I'd fix myself before it catapulted the person sitting on me onto the floor. So I should do the same for myself.
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  • SugarSpun wrote: »
    I figure that at the moment I'm a bit wobbly, and if I had a chair that was a bit wobbly I'd fix myself before it catapulted the person sitting on me onto the floor. So I should do the same for myself.


    :mad: OI LADY!!! Are you after my post as the wise old bird of the thread? :mad:



    ;)



    :T May we all be as reflective and honest as you in our times of wobbliness :T
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Did you just call me an old bird? :rotfl:

    I've just noticed that I started out by talking about owning a chair and ended up talking about being a chair. Clearly psychiatric intervention is not a moment too soon ;)
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  • tarajayne wrote: »
    Oh dear MFD, really hope it works out for you. Hopefully they will realise once you've done 3mths that they can't manage without you. :D

    Thanks hun. It is a bizarre situation which has taken it's toll on me in many ways...I spent my maternity leave writing a tender which has still not been awarded so I feel a bit 'robbed' of my time concentrating solely on my son in some ways.

    I have considered walking away many times but I have 2 others whose jobs depend on me staying so it is not an easy decision.

    It is a good job that I love the role, it certainly wouldn't be worth it otherwise.

    Mostly I am robbed of sleep!!! The only mummy whose baby mostly sleeps through and I still struggle for more than a few hours at a time. I was wide-eyed at 2am this morning, having not managed to get any sleep at all.


    Good job us mummies can cope on 4 hours a night :cool:
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • weezl74
    weezl74 Posts: 8,701 Forumite
    SugarSpun wrote: »
    Did you just call me an old bird? :rotfl:

    I've just noticed that I started out by talking about owning a chair and ended up talking about being a chair. Clearly psychiatric intervention is not a moment too soon ;)
    just turn up in your towel and specs and take it from there;)

    :hello:Jonathan 'Fergie' Fergus William, born 05/03/09, 7lb 4.4oz:hello:
    :)Benjamin 'Kezzie' Kester Jacob, born 18/03/10, 7lb 5oz:)
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  • weezl74
    weezl74 Posts: 8,701 Forumite
    ..I spent my maternity leave writing a tender which has still not been awarded so I feel a bit 'robbed' of my time concentrating solely on my son in some ways.

    no comfort at all, but I just wanted to say I really know this feeling and it is horrid :(

    hugs again

    hiya tara! did you see me ask how S and P are doing? :)

    :hello:Jonathan 'Fergie' Fergus William, born 05/03/09, 7lb 4.4oz:hello:
    :)Benjamin 'Kezzie' Kester Jacob, born 18/03/10, 7lb 5oz:)
    cash neutral gifts 2011, value of purchased gifts/actual paid/amount earnt to cover it £67/£3.60/£0
    january grocery challenge, feed 4 of us for £40
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    Hope Becs did well this morning! X

    Happy Birthday Daniel. XXX

    And DD and Poppie doing very well once the realisation of the hard work ahead wore off a bit!!! :rotfl:
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    If you love your job then it's worth it, but you must sleep!!!
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    I'm now sensibly and reasonably smartly dressed. I'd be very smartly dressed if I CBA to iron and there wasn't a small orange handprint on my trousers. Why does Molly insist on squidging her food before she will eat it?
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