Got pregnant by a married bloke

Loopy_Girl

shell_542 wrote: »

I've already posted in reply to the OP, but I wasn't letting a nasty comment like that go.

Nothing nasty about it....maybe for some people it will hit a nerve but it's not nasty unless you want it to be

Loopy_Girl

shell_542 wrote: »

And unless the OP is having a 2 yr long pregnancy, she's not pregnant anymore.

My mistake

Lets kick her head in for her young son to see instead. Marvellous

shell_542

Excuse me but you basically just said any woman who's man strays its partly, if not all her fault. You have no idea what happens in the relationship between the man and wife so what gives you the right to judge when you slated the other poster for judging the OP and her actions in the affair.

I don't fall for the crap that a woman who has an affair with a married man and vice versa isn't in the wrong at all and is not to blame one little bit. (If they know the person is married) They know right from wrong and also have a tongue in their head where they can say "whilse you're still attached I want nothing to do with you". they might not give a !!!! about the family they could hurt ... but they should and it would make the world a nicer place if people thought about others rather than just themselves (goes for both parties in an affair)

Loopy_Girl

Shell I'm not getting into it with you as there is no way on earth you can possibly hold a subjective opinion on this

jamespir

i dont mean to be funny but you brought the child up cause you didnt want to have an abortion now you want to screw the guy for every penny and perhaps his marraige despite the fact hes given you 10 grand

i smell a hint of jealousy

margaretclare

How can someone get pregnant 'accidentally'? Haven't we had free contraception, freely-available, for I don't know how many years? This is 2010, not 1910! Babies don't arrive with the stork, or under a gooseberry bush!

I have heard Jeremy Kyle tell a man 'you should have put something on the end of it'. Quite.

shell_542

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

My mistake

Lets kick her head in for her young son to see instead. Marvellous

You really are exaggerating. Where did that poster say someone could beat the womnan up in front of her child?

And before my words get twisted, I don't condone violence in this kind of situation or any ... hence me thinking that poster had a terrible attitude just like yours.

I agree with a lot of things you post Loopy but that was out of order, whether said for effect or not. If you didn't mean it, why say it in the first place? I believe posting things for a reaction are the traits of a troll.

shell_542

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

Shell I'm not getting into it with you as there is no way on earth you can possibly hold a subjective opinion on this

Does that mean you could not possibly enter into any debates on the subject of non/compliant NRPs because you have personal experience of it yourself? How silly.

I know right from wrong, even without having experience of it personally. Affairs are wrong, the only way an affair partner could possibly not be held even partly responsible is if they didn't know the other person was involved with someone else (which happens a lot).

RedSky

DaveLy wrote: »

The guy earns £2k a week, clearly hes smart enough to use a condom if he cheats. He didn't, he should face the consequences. It's a fathers responsibility to support his child.

Go to the CSA, let the crap hit the fan if need be... too much money? Explain to him that your putting £XX of the £240 a week of the CSA your getting into a bank account for your childs future, that'll pay for his college/university and deposit for his first home -- things his Dad probably wont help out with when the time comes given his behaviour now.

Then I presume you also believe the original poster should pay half any divorce settlement costs having equally been responsible for the break up of a marriage. If both people should take equal responsibility for their actions and pay the cost of supporting the innocent then there are two innocent parties to consider here, the child and the (ex) wife.

Loopy_Girl

Where did I say I didn't mean it? I said I posted it for effect - that doesn't mean I don't mean it.

If you think I was out of order then fair enough - I didn't for a million years think you would agree with me.

Just because you don't agree with it doesn't make it wrong - how can it be wrong when it is my opinion (and I suspect many more people except they won't say it out loud) and my attitude isn't terrible - I'm merely thinking against the grain so to speak...doesn't make me a bad or terrible person.

And if you think I am being troll like then go ahead and report me - I don't have an issue with that.

Quite frankly I have no idea why you are even participating in this thread...if I were you I would have steered well clear