Reformed shopaholic? please can you give me the benefit of your advice

NGlady2

Frog - I believe you are the type of lady who I can be honest to, I really dont want to upset you with this - but - I honestly dont think BYM is interested. If you think about it, how he behaves with his text msging, how he behaves with the coming to see you etc if he was truely interested he would not let a day go by without an hello, he would see you as much as possible.

I really want you to find some happiness in 2012 - but i sadly dont think BYM is the source of your happiness.

I hope that doesnt offend you I do consider you as a friend and i dont like to see you messed around.

Frogletina

NGlady2 wrote: »

Frog - I believe you are the type of lady who I can be honest to, I really dont want to upset you with this - but - I honestly dont think BYM is interested. If you think about it, how he behaves with his text msging, how he behaves with the coming to see you etc if he was truely interested he would not let a day go by without an hello, he would see you as much as possible.

I really want you to find some happiness in 2012 - but i sadly dont think BYM is the source of your happiness.

I hope that doesnt offend you I do consider you as a friend and i dont like to see you messed around.

It's ok - you've not said anything to me that I haven't thought myself.

All I can say is that he is an important part of my life at the moment, despite everything, despite the lack of contact and that a future between us is not a reality at all.

NGlady2

I somehow imagine how you feel. When I was younger, I was with an older man. And although I knew he wasnt truely interested in me and i knew he didnt want what i want, I still had to be in contact with him, he had me in love with the idea of being with him?

Is that sort of how you feel?

xx

Frogletina

NGlady2 wrote: »

I somehow imagine how you feel. When I was younger, I was with an older man. And although I knew he wasnt truely interested in me and i knew he didnt want what i want, I still had to be in contact with him, he had me in love with the idea of being with him?

Is that sort of how you feel?

xx

When he is not here, I wonder whether he thinks about me at all. But yes, I am in love with the idea of being with him. As you know, he is my 'beautiful young man' - for some reason I do attract the younger man, and I am acutely aware that one day soon I may have to accept that is no longer the case.

Frogletina

Yearly accounts completed :j and budgets set for next year

Anglea

You still online FR?

I had a strange night out.

Not as expected now wishing I went to the other place

Home very late

Frogletina

Yes, I'm still here. PM if you like

Anglea

Eyes are shutting so should go to bed. hope you enjoyed your wine or champagne if you were alone or with your neighbour.

It was the wrong vibe for a NYE

Good food was the plus point

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

Eyes are shutting so should go to bed. hope you enjoyed your wine or champagne if you were alone or with your neighbour.

It was the wrong vibe for a NYE

Good food was the plus point

Ah, didn't have any wine or champagne. Neighbour didn't come round so I didn't open either bottle

Had diet coke instead! lol

Anglea

I think I should have had that, got a headache now.