Miscarriage support

ttc39

sorry to hear you having a pants day lara,

big hugs to rosie, youve gone quiet - hope all ok?

plmbl - glad your ds is back at school and well again. how are you? weird no af yet? xxx

rosie_78

well im NOT pregnant.
bf is away - went this morning. I took day off work and have done ... NOTHING today (other than a little cleaning ... ). then I had an indian head massage. and now im watching utter total crap on tv and chilling out. no one to clean up for. no one to make me eat dinner. nothing to do - its great! very lonely though lol.

how is everyone? any plans for the weekend? xx xx

msb5262

Hi Rosie, glad you are relaxing. Can I make you eat dinner from here? Food is definitely a good idea! You know I'm right...
Look after yourself xx

ttc39

Hi Rosie, how long has your boyf gone away for?

Dont feel lonely - enjoy the freedom! Watching what u want, heat on if you want, bed to yourself to stretch right out :-)

Get a takeaway in if u can - so no cooking , if not toast is easy if u are feeling lazy :-)

Im ok hun, just sitting on here while hubby watches footie, tom we are going to romford to see a mate of ours and come back home Sunday xx

sweaty_betty

Hello there - hope you all have something nice planned this weekend.
We're having a quiet one, except for the hospital baby memorial service on Sunday. Not sure quite what to expect but feel it's right to go.

In other news, after having no kitchen for 4 months while we had building work done, we finally have a working oven so we can cook properly again! I know it sounds silly but I feel like a weight has been lifted from me (now just have to lose the weight I've put on in the meantime!).

msb5262

Hi Betty,

Best wishes for the memorial service on Sunday - hope you find it helpful. Will be thinking of you and your OH.

MsB x

ttc39

Hi SB , hope you get on ok sunday xx. Omg i bet u are pleased , dont think i could be withont oven that long , glad all sorted now

Plmbl - how are you hun? Are you getting some relaxing time for u in at all now hubbie and ds1 are ok?

rosie_78

ttc39 wrote: »

Oh Hun , wouldn't upset us - would
I think you have so much on your plate. When is next psych appt?

Have you told them fully about oh behaviour? Xxx

sorry I didn't see this before hun. next psych appointment is in November, but he's started calling me weekly now which is a little hard to get used to. the new AD im going on is safe in pregnancy (well as safe as any med). I've rejected the therapy that was due to start this month because I just can't do it emotionally at the moment. so i'm just doing CAT next year.

He said he's worried im spiralling downward because of the hyper days im having. I keep meaning to say to him that bi polar can mean that sometimes ... just that my highs are not as long as the lows I guess.

I told him that bf has forced himself on me a few times now but I wasn't too expressive about it. I don't want to/ cant say it out loud easy so write a lot of things down. I also told him OH does naff all around the house, leave a mess ... etc etc and he wanted us to go to couples therapy (my psychologist offered that too). OH says point blank no. it's my mental health issue, not his. sorry to rant. no one else to really talk to about this. sorry xx xx

rosie_78

I hope it's peaceful SweatyBetty xx I go to the hospice one at Christmas for mum, it's nice time out xx xx (if that's the right way of looking at it). New kitchen!! Brilliant

I hope you enjoy your trip ttc39

OOoh king size bed all to myself!! he's back on sunday night.

msb5262 and plmbl - I hope you're both ok xxx

ttc39

Thats ok hun, are u really ok with oh? Or is it you dont want to be alone hun?

He should never make u feel he his forcing himself on you :-(

I think u know its not a healthy relationship but you have so much weighing you down that it is impossible for you to deal with Xxxxx