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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Will be thinking of you betty. Hope the appointment goes well and you feel listened to.

    My cycles were all over the place before the m/c, and probably the same amount of all over the place afterwards, iyswim. Tbh I thought the m/c and the IVF drugs would have messed things up more than they did.

    1dpo today and have utterly convinced myself that we've done it this month. No idea why, we've never managed before (without serious medical intervention) but the evil witch hope has well and truly got hold of me this time.

    Hope everyone's having an ok day, hugs to you all.
  • sweaty_betty
    sweaty_betty Posts: 1,337 Forumite
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    Thanks all - gp was very sympathetic, I'm going to get day 21 bloods done, then go from there. Hoping I'm worrying over nothing.
  • ttc39
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    Glad gp trip went well Betty :-)

    How your hubby now PLMBL?

    Rosie - how's things?

    Sam - are you feeling any better?

    Lara - how is all your work coming along?

    Fingers crossed for you Tea and all of us xx
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  • rosie_78
    rosie_78 Posts: 261 Forumite
    Hello all xx xx

    hope everyone had a nice weekend? x

    im very worried at the moment. still no period following ERPC. did a test last night - feint positive (on Tesco cheapie).

    did a clear blue after work, AND another Tesco cheapie. positive (very feint on the Tesco one) negative on the clear blue one.

    Not told bf, just don't know what to do. am I or arent' I?

    I don't "feel" like I am. not like how it was before miscarriage.

    urgh..
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Oh wow , Rosie that's fab news :-) congrats to you.

    Get a clear blue test and see what that says?

    How are things with oh? Maybe wait till u 100 percent sure of result before you tell him? Xxx
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    How long ago was your erpc Rosie?

    I took about 3 weeks or more I think to get a negative. I think it then took another 2 weeks after that for ovulation.

    So like ttc39 says check your result perhaps before saying anything as he seems rather unsympathetic.

    I just found out one of my bests friends is having a miscarriage. I'm so upset for her.
  • Betty I'm pleased things went well with the Dr.

    Rosie, I wasn't sure about faint lines either so I decided to go with what Clear Blue said. Like you, it said negative so I went with that. Still no AF for me though and it's been a week since I tested so might do another one soon. Reading above about ovulating later in cycles after mcs has got me wondering!! I also don't 'feel' pregnant though.

    Tea lover I have everything crossed for you this cycle!

    BWP and Sophiasmum, thank you for your insights into cycles post mc.

    ttc thanks for asking, DH is ok but a little slow/tired. The seizures take it out of him (and me!). Hope you are ok too.
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  • Cross posted Claire, sorry to hear about your friend. It's just so cruel Xx
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    It really is plmbl.

    I hope your DH gets better soon it sounds exhausting xx
  • ttc39
    ttc39 Posts: 691 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your friend Claire :-(

    Rosie - sorry Hun I must have missed the bit where u had done a cb test. I'd leave it a few days and then do another clear blue one xx

    Hard to know where I'm at as only had 1 period since mc, think I should be due again in weeks time so will see. Think it will take a few cycles to get back accurate on the tracking xx
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