Miscarriage support

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Rosie I hope your appointment went/goes ok today. I think you've already been given the best advice re women's aid, but aside from that, do they have rooms at work you could stay in? (assuming it's a hotel type venue you work in). Is it your flat you live in? or his? Or did you move in together?

Ttc, sorry your day is dragging, hope the afternoon goes faster for you.

How is everyone else?

Still no AF for me, but according to my friend Google, it's not abnormal for it to take 8 weeks for it to return post mc. If it's not back by next week will go to Drs. Feel yucky today, think I've picked upa bug that my youngest has had Xx

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Cross posted Sam, sorry you are poorly too. Get well soon Xx

ttc39

PLMBL and Sam - hope you feel better soon xx

Rosie - are you ok Hun? Xxx

Lara, prob did you good to chill out a bit xx

ttc39

Morning all,
well I don't think I got any sleep at all - at least I don't look like I have! Rain was hammering down on the conservatory roof which is attached to our bedroom. Grrr feel knackered and eyes not opening lol

Hope all of u have a good day xx

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I didn't get any sleep either, DH had 7 seizures through the night . Been at hospital with him all day. For the first time the thought crossed my mind that it was a positive thing I'm not 19 weeks pregnant with twins like I should be. Then I felt super guilty for thinking that

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I'm sorry to read that plmbl - how are things now? will he be staying overnight in hospital? xx I understand why you'd initially thing that about your mc, the amount of emotions you go through when a loved one is ill is hard to keep up with. xx xx

are you feeling better sam?

are you ok ttc39? Its horrible not being able to sleep.

lump on boob is "probably just a blocked pore ..." but im to go back in a few months if it's grown/changed shape/hurts.

my psychiatrist appointment was hard at first. he congratulated me on my pregnancy when i first went in, then I broke down telling him i'd lost the baby. he is going to see me every three or four weeks until I start CAT which is good. he's changed the medication im on (one anti depressant to another) and said it should help. have to wean off slowly though. im a little worried as I don't sleep very well and the current one has sedative effects .. It will take me a week to wean off them, so i'll be on new ones for three weeks before I see him again. if im not sleeping at all then he'll give me sleeping tablets too. I said I didn't need anything when I was pregnant as I was super tired all the time.

ttc39

Oh PLMBL - so sorry to hear about your hubbie xx hope he won't be in hospital for too long and that you are ok. Is someone helping you with kids so you are free to visit hubbie? Xx

Rosie, glad you are ok, sounds promising on appt with psyc, hope new tablets will kick in and be good for you xx also fab news on boob too xx

did you take oh with you on appts? How are you feeling about him at mo? Xxx

ttc39

I'm ok, just been knackered , looking forward to a decent sleep tonight

Had an email slip through the I should've unsubscribed net, telling me how far gone I am/ should've been :-(

Really don't know what'd I would've done without you lot here last few weeks, I know we are strangers in some ways, but I really look forward to chatting to u all xxx

rosie_78

didn't take him. I told him to f.. off this morning. I had a mini flip out because the cup was still on the table that he'd been promising to put in dishwasher was still there. I just got moody and lobbed it. not directly at him. but he said it was. he's tip toe-ing around me at the mo. offered to do dinner. has cleaned up. bleurgh I don't know. wont last.

my psych is more than happy for him to come along to appointments. I said only if a couple of things weren't brought up. don't want him knowing my diagnosis. he knows i have MH issues, but not the specifics. it's weird. no one actually knows other than me the psych. I cant tell anyone irl as there's no one to really know.

how are you feeling ttc39? xx xx

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Thanks Rosie and ttc :A. DH is home. I'm surprised they didn't keep him in, but I've got everything crossed that's the end of the seizures for now.

Rosie, glad your appointments went well.

Ttc, sorry about the email Xx