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samtoby wrote: »

BWP - Its good to hear you went on to have a healthy baby. Still doesn't take away the hurt though of the baby you lost I imagine.

Thanks, you're right it doesn't take it away - in some ways it has helped and in some ways it has been harder but I think overall it would be much harder to never have another one. I think I'll always feel like I have one child less than I should regardless of how many I ultimately have but since I've realised that I've felt kind of more at peace with it if that makes any sense.

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BadlyWrittenPoem wrote: »

Thanks, you're right it doesn't take it away - in some ways it has helped and in some ways it has been harder but I think overall it would be much harder to never have another one. I think I'll always feel like I have one child less than I should regardless of how many I ultimately have but since I've realised that I've felt kind of more at peace with it if that makes any sense.

I think that's spot on. Although my mcs have been post having children not before if you see what I mean, it's hard because I look at my 2 and think "there should have been 4 more just like you", however to never know what a child of mine would be like would be harder still. I hope that makes sense.

Ttc best of luck with ttc .

I do have another test. I don't want to waste it though and get another 'not pregnant'. If I'm not though Aunt Flo must be on an extended holiday!! I'm feeling down today and I don't know why. Could be hormones I suppose if AF is en route but I'm normally more :mad: than if that's the case Xx

Lara44

Hey Ladies

Hope all is well. I'm just slogging away trying the get the first draft of my PhD ready for next Monday. Only a quarter done, so I have still got a long way to go!

I should have been submitting the finished thesis today if I hadn't had the mc and so much time off. Can't help feeling gutted about everything going wrong.

DH and I are TTCing again this month and it is weighing heavily on my mind. I really don't want to become an obsessive, but there is precious little else to distract me I would so love to fall again soon too TTC39 and all of us on this thread. That would be amazing!

I hope you get your lump seen to soon Rosie and that it turns out to be nothing.

Hugs for your appointment Air Cooled.

PLMBL - so strange your AF is not here yet! You must be feeling a bit frustrated.

Hugs hugs hugs xxx

SueBroo

Hi Ali

I went though this too it's horrid BUT I am pleased to say there is light at the end of the tunnel and am now running round after my own little monkey! It's hard to keep picking yourself back up but keep going you will get there xx

ttc39

Did anyone have more intense ovulation pains after their mc?
It's like a bad period pain.. Never used to notice any pain at ov, so seems strange ?

So glad it's the weekend :-) seeing a couple of mates today then Tom just spending day with hubbie. Hopefully get some bd in today and Tom xx

samtoby

I did have some strong pains but just after ovulation I believe it would have been implantation pain.

Maybe it is that!

Sorry you still haven't got AF PLMBL. But better still there maybe a BFP in the wings....

Have a good weekend

ttc39

Thanks Sam, hope we get lucky before Xmas xx

Very quiet here today , hope all ok, Lara,PLMBL,Rosie ,tea and anyone else I've missed xx

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Lara I've got everything crossed for your TTC'ing. Good luck with the PhD also Xx

ttc everything that was crossed for Lara has now been doubly crossed for you that it's implantation pains Xx

I've had my first shift back at work today after 6 weeks off. It went ok apart from when a customer dropped it into the conversation that she is pregnant with twins . I was gutted. Why did she get to keep her twins and I didn't?!

Still no AF. Been tearful today though (and that was before the pregnant lady!).

Love to all Xx

ttc39

Hi PLMBL

Thanks for keeping everything crossed for me xx same to u too xx

Bet you glad to be back home, must ve been upsetting with pregnant lady :-(. But I'm still holding out hope that you are too xx

ttc39

Lara, hope you getting on ok with your PhD work,

Rosie - you ve been quiet Hun, hope all ok xx