Miscarriage support

samtoby

I have been clutching at straws for weeks, googling and god knows what else. It has made me worse. My best friend said to me tonight. ' You need to stop googling its not going to change what has happend but look forward, it wasn't you time but the time will come and it will be perfect'. It made me smile. She is wonderful.

I don't think anyone can predict how they will feel or deal with miscarriage but we all have this sorry unfortunate event in common and we have each other to talk to.

I am now 7DPO and getting more nervous by the day. Seeing the AF is going to really upset me I think. Another reminder, but as each day goes past; each day I do get a little stronger.

Love to you all xx

ttc39

samtoby wrote: »

I have been clutching at straws for weeks, googling and god knows what else. It has made me worse. My best friend said to me tonight. ' You need to stop googling its not going to change what has happend but look forward, it wasn't you time but the time will come and it will be perfect'. It made me smile. She is wonderful.

I don't think anyone can predict how they will feel or deal with miscarriage but we all have this sorry unfortunate event in common and we have each other to talk to.

I am now 7DPO and getting more nervous by the day. Seeing the AF is going to really upset me I think. Another reminder, but as each day goes past; each day I do get a little stronger.

Love to you all xx

Sounds like you have a great friend there Sam xx

ttc39

Hello all, well just back from docs, still positive on pregnancy test :-( and no sign of clots - so am due at hospital at 2:45 for another scan, to see what is happening .

Doc was lovely lady and she was very sympathetic - was due back at work Wednesday but she has given me to next Tuesday .she said what we have all been through is a huge trauma.

Feel a bit bad as I have good n bad days but have also done quite a bit of de cluttering too :-( she said see how this avo goes , if u decide u want to go back work sooner let me know..

Have just rang my hr dept, they were lovely. Said only go back when I am ready.

So lets hope they can help explain why hormones still as prominent as they are and that the clots have maybe passed without me realising...

Hope everyone is ok.

Hope PLMBL is having a great day with her boys before they return to school xx

msb5262

Thanks for the update ttc39 - glad you have such a nice doctor. Don't feel guilty about being off work, you don't have to feel dreadful 100% of the time to "deserve" time off!
Look after yourself and have a good day.

naomijj

Hope all goes well ttc39 thinking of you xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Hope scan is going ok ttc. Thinking of you.

Hugs to anyone that needs one. Will post properly later Xx

ttc39

Hello, we'll back from scan and its Good News,
everything has passed (How I didn't know seems strange )

I have an anteverted uterus , which appears normal and endometrial lining is at 3.9 which she says is consistent with the fact of the recent bleeding.

She said ovaries look normal. Phew! Very relieved.

Now can just concentrate on getting back together mentally knowing physically all ok.

PLMBL - Hope you had a great day xx

Naomijj - thank you for thinking of me xx

Msb5262 - thanks for your reply earlier xx

I honestly don't know how I'd have coped without you lovely lot that post on here - thanks so much xxxx

ttc39

Now googled and it seems 3.9 is thin for lining? X

sophiasmum

Step away from google ttc39!
Glad all went as well as it could at the scan x

naomijj

So glad you are ok hun xx